“Thinking back, it’s all depend on accuracy!”

I sat down, not knowing exactly what to do. Should I approach her just now or should I let her finished buying? And hey, what will people say about me?

(I was talking to myself).

This girl is beautiful. And I can see different eyes on her. Ultimate attention sucker. People are all looking at her direction. And in fact, I was the only one (not really) not paying attention. As if, I didn’t gives a fuck.

But to be honest, I was fighting the huge to release my specimen. The thing is getting crazy down there, as if I haven’t seen a girl for years.

And the more I look at the girl before me, the more all the viber in my entire body keep shouting ‘retreat! retreat! retreat!’ What the hell..??

This girl is beautiful, and to me (according to how I rate women), she’s elegantly awesome. And in fact, am feeling too many butterfly in my stomach even as am typing this (not to mention what really happens at that fortunate present).

As am looking at her my heart was pounding like a beast. Upon all the experiences I still found it uneasy to just go.

“Yeah, just walk up to her!”

Fuck you! Do you realize how hard it is to just walk up to her? Ain’t that easier said than done?

In fact, it was hard like hell. And am certain, many guys in the room can also relate to that … … We’re all feeling nervous like shit (that’s my guess anyway).

But as a writer, a coach (yeah I coach some dude out there) I choose to face my fear. Right now this girl was my biggest fear. And I didn’t want to regret not talking to her.

So I muster the courage and walk up to her. (Even though all the butterflies in my stomach has started their meetings already. Flying like shit!)

I didn’t try to look cool – and how will I? When am feeling nervous already. So I just try to be the real me, the real feeling nervous guy.

“Scuese me! Like seriously, I was scared to talk to you.!”

“Buh why..? Why’re you scaring..!!!”

“Hum, seriously, you’re too sexy!”

“Oh thanks!”

“Okay! Am Lasisi, and although am kind of feeling scared right now, all because of your look. But anyway, I really want to know you better!”

“Oh yeah, you’ve known me already.”

“Not really, let have a seat then we’ll talk better!”

“Alright, but, little time I got. Hope you won’t mind!”

“Yeah, sure.”

Then we sat down talking about shit. Shit I didn’t even remember. Honestly, I was just saying nonsense.

And maybe after five minutes she wanted to leave. And I was like, cool, I’ve already break some limit talking to you. So I asked for her number and she somehow declined. And well, I didn’t think much of it and we both say goodbye.

Why am I writing this?

Most times you gotta feel like shit. Sometimes the situation will be tense, and sometimes just pure feeling of getting rejected.

Although when I first started dating, yeah, in the beginning of me approaching. I was this crazy headed guy. I didn’t give a fuck about any situation. I just did my approach without caring about how I appear to the world. But now, it seem I am getting left behind.

What you practice is what you master. You stop practicing it, then you stop improving.

I can approach any fucking woman in any fucking places (back in the days). But now I realize, things started changing. I started calculating my target, finding spot to attack. Which is not happening before.

Although I can still be that crazy dude (only when the situation call for it), but now, I prefer cunning approach. (I don’t know if am just lying to myself or am being honest here. Maybe am just scared to approach, that’s all).

But the main point is:

No matter how ‘Casanova’ you are, if you stop practicing your craft, then you’re diminishing your skills. Very soon, you won’t be that great again.

What..??!! You mean just because I can approach any woman before doesn’t mean I can do it now today!?

Correct! That’s what am saying, exactly.

Just because you can do it back then doesn’t mean you can do it now. And because you can do it now doesn’t mean you’re now better than before. It might just mean you can now differentiate your target. Hmm, operation dodging the failure. #wink.

You’re now better at chosen who to approach and who to ignore. And some people call it taste. As in, you know your ‘taste’ when you see them. (Well, whether you’re lying or not I didn’t know. Maybe you’re just running from rejection, who knows?)

But here is the kicker.. .. ..

No matter how I feel (even if am feeling more than eleven millions butterfly in my stomach), if the girl was excellent, and she was driving me like mad, then by all means am going to approach her. I won’t just come up with one bullshit. Instead, I’ll persuade myself to finally meet her. I might now get there and say the truth; “Babe, I didn’t really want to talk to you. Because I am scared. But anyway, I have manage to do so. So, can I get to know you?!”


Say the fuck you wanted to say about me. That’s how I do my shit. I can’t just be here writing down what I didn’t practice. Am not writing fiction you know.

I talk to girl that really tickle my fancy. And I will stop at nothing to approach her. (Although she can choose to ignore me!)

So as much as ‘Casanova’ as I am, I still find it nervous to approach some girls. Not because I didn’t have enough courage, (or you can say so anyway), but because some situations just make me feel weird.

But no matter the situation anyway, I still manage to be honest with myself.

That’s that for this article.

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A Lesson Learned From Living A Disciplinary Lifestyle.

“I don’t care who the hell it is, either it’s your colleagues at work or your disciplinary girl friends. Always leave people better than you meet them.”

The journey of my life consist of interacting with people, either my love ones or my personal acquaintances, I always feel like leaving them better than I met them.

But all that doesn’t necessarily mandated to people you get along with (alone), you should also transfer it to your personal day-to-day life.

Here it is…

“I drop from a bike this morning heading to my hometown (I gat a company there and I went to a Taxi Garage for my trip over there), and as am about to ask the driver which bus is going next, I manage to raised my head and ‘clock-four my eyes’ with one of my not-so-pretty back in the days dating dioxide.

This girl was pretty but somehow has ugly flaw – she play men. Although I couldn’t blame her, but I still find it ugly.

I smirk to her and didn’t talk but shake her hand anyway, and we both enter the bus. And well, I didn’t say shit and we both come down at the same place – and yet, I refused to talk to her.

She was surprised because her friend keep on looking over me through her shoulder. (I thought they’ve brief each other over my matter).

I didn’t think much about it because I could never date her type – why?

I think she always believe she’s wise, meanwhile, she’s only dating not so average guys, or let just say, guys with little to non principles. Guys who didn’t mind how girls treat them as long as they can find their ways to her vagina. Fuck those guys!

When I first met her, she was decent, average looking women but full of youthful figure. I was like, this girl really dope men. Then I approached her and talk to her. We exchange contact.

After that we started seeing each other, I didn’t know I was being scammed but anyway (as an honest guy) I play well with her fantasies. Although we didn’t fuck, hell, I don’t even manage to press some yokes, but anyway, the journey somehow worth it (even though she did wasted my time a little before I realized what is going on).

She was smart but not too smart, because back then I was desperately looking for girlfriend (she wouldn’t last a day if it was now) so I didn’t pay much attention with girls playing game. I just stupidly run after them.

But upon all my stupid acts and brainless pursuit, I still manage to practice my ART; “Always leave better than you meet them.”

The day I realized she was playing me, I said what the fuck, I wasted my time and some resources on this girl and yet I didn’t know she was playing me. Oh boy, I was being pranked.

But I was happy because I did the best I could. Because no matter the situation we found each other in the nearest future, she’s gonna be the one to feel ashamed, scamming a man who didn’t care about your bullshit mentality but instead allow you to go ‘scot-free’ without taking actions. You should realize those type of guy aren’t common you know. To allow any woman to walk-out of his life even though they try to exploit him, that guy really have something up his sleeve am serious.

So I didn’t take actions because I believe we gonna see again and she’s going to regret it, and what about the lessons learned from her, you know? That lessons alone is enough for me to survive this life crazy bitches to show up in my life next to other times.

So I thanks her for playing me, she has already teach me enough to be my own coach in case of next time – you know, I might still meet her type.

And today we finally met again – but I didn’t say a shit about it. I just smirk and go my separate way as we both come down from the bus, but she can realize some ‘fuck you’ coming out from my body language.

And yes, I can see her getting nervous and feeling inferior because she didn’t know what to do – dumping a man who is wiser than you ain’t a small tactics you know. I think she secretly admire me now, what a mature guy.

Moral of story…??

As you go up in life, either in business and or in relationships, always try your best to never be at the lower end. Don’t always take from people but give as well.

Either giving through your expertise or through your resources, just make sure that you’re not always being at the receiving end.

Because when the times come, you’ll thank God and appreciate yourself for not being an inferior target.

Always have the upper hand.

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I Thought I Was Doing A Great Job, But No, I Was Being Exploited.

I don’t really know if you should start getting in love or you should start running from it. You know, it’s kind of a dilemma.

Sometimes you’ll meet people with some good intentions and yet they’re there to squeeze all the goods they’re capable of squeezing out of you.

And if you still doesn’t get it, they started finding ways to dig deeper.

What if you still failed to know better? Then be ready for a lifetime of a dilemma (don’t check your dictionary yet).

In fact, they can even turn to everlasting lovers as long as they’re getting what they really wanted.

Or “have you ever seen someone as ugly as she is still trying to file a complain about not meeting handsome and awesome guys out there? Or that guy’s just can’t pay up to her standard?”

It’s a bizarre you know, for some ugly fuck face to be claiming to date extremely handsome guy even with nothing to bring to the table.

Yet, they will still be the one to tell you that you should take care of women, that you should pamper them and provide for all their needs. When in reality, these same women are the most ugliest among the beauties.

Seriously, it’s kind of annoyed when seeing these fuck face jamming their tongues about men.

‘What? You said you want to date handsome and reasonable guys? What are you? A bunch of dick head?’

“During some period of times, I dated plenty women. I go out almost every day a week. But what really strike me most is this: during the said time, am into a business that really pays me much without giving too much stress from my side. And without giving it a lot of thoughts, I occasionally spend money for girls I love, or let just say like. Not because they’re playing trick on me or because am trying to lure them with money, but because I really like them and I really want to, and sincerely speaking, I am more than happy to spend my not-too-hard earned money on them. But the results highly surprised me. These girls doesn’t really give a fuck about me, instead, they keep on proving how stupid I am. Like am just there to take good care of their needs. What a crazy bastards?”

“Is there a crime showing how caring I am? Why can’t women just understand me?”

“I really like them that’s why am spending my money on them. But why are they treating me this way?”

I keep on asking myself question upon questions, in the end, I realized; girls don’t really care about who you be, seriously speaking, who you be should go to hell. They only care about feelings. Yes! How they feel about you.

And if you join stupidity with feelings, that you still need to take care of women, wait till those girl started dumping you. Then your head will correct.

Maybe after some girls beat your heads up, you’ll run down somewhere like this thinking about life?

Love women but don’t think taking care of their needs will give you a blow-job. No. It won’t.

So, does that mean you should be a dick-head?

Well, not really.

But if being a dick-headed guy will get the job done, you better start being one.

‘Yeah, be a little asshole.’

John Cena won’t take shit from anyone, and nor should you.

“But wait, that picture ain’t John Cena.’

Yeah, you’re right. Just keep on reading.

And hey, there’s nothing more to read anyway.

But keep your head straight and forget about pampering girls. (They don’t really want your hard-earned money 💰💰💰 they only want you to fuck them hard).

And please, don’t mix ‘being a husband’ with someone who can drive girl crazy, nope. There’s different between the two.

So, fuck her like a crazy beast.


Have a wild life.

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I have been here more than thousand times. Staying here more than million years. Still yet, I never met a man who can live my life the way I wanted to. It’s just rare for anyone to be who I want to be, that’s why am living according to my own beliefs and personal values.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

One thing is certain: Am going to offend many people all over the world. But I tell you, those who really have the ball to live their lives according to their beliefs and their own personal standards will sure understand my point:

You just can’t live like an emotional zombie. Walking around, roaming around, without a special purpose. That’s a craziest way to live.

I am here for a reason. And for you to tell me otherwise might mean am going to ditch you like a fucking trash bin.

I don’t really care who you be. Either you’re someone I respected or you’re one of my own family members, I don’t really care. All I care about is for you to leave me and let me live my life the way I want.

Sincerely speaking, I am advising you to be who you really want to be. But never in your life will you stick your fucking nose into my fucking business. That might make me really hurt you like hell. You know what??? Just. Let. Me. Be.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

If you think living a good life mean having your dream job, getting married and have some lovely childrens? So be it for you.

But never ever say that am living a wrong life just because I didn’t follow your life patterns. You know, everyone has his or her own life to live.

Be who you want to be and allow someone else to live their lives as their heart desires. Never stick your nose to somebody else’s life talk of saying rubbish behind them. Live your life and live it better.

If everyone around you aren’t thinking like you, they’re not dreaming like you, and most importantly, they couldn’t see what you’re seeing. Then you should thank God. You are living a life nobody else dare living. Of course, your ambitions is quite different from anyone else. That’s a dream no one realize they could ever imagined.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

You don’t know why universe keep on hitting you hard.

You don’t know why mother nature keep on presenting to you some craziest situations.

Nor do you know why your life is just full of up and down.

But I tell you, you’re here for a reason.

And all those crazy feelings and experiences will come back making ways into your life to uplift you and guide you throughout every journey you might really try to embarked on. That’s the power of universe entertaining your thoughts, you will surely remain loyal to every difficulties and challenges.

And hey; nothing will have ultimate power to bring you down.

That’s the promised for the chosen ones.

Have a wonderful life.

It’s still your guy . . .

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

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As long as you’re ready to get what you want, there will always be a price tag. Either in your relationship life or in your personal, normal life, there will always be something to pay for.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

You really like being around women but scared to death when it turn to talking to them? Well, there will always be a price tag. And the price is to get your ass up and start talking to them anyway.

No! Your fear won’t go away, but I promised, you will soon get over it, as long as you’re ready to face the journey without turning back, sooner or later, you’ll come back thanking yourself for taking the tough steps even though you’re scared like shit.

Or maybe your own is to get fit so that you can approach more women without any difficulties?

Well well well, you have a long way to go, the journey that will make you questions all your personal normal life. You know? NOBODY get fit merely by talking about it. They get fit by forcing themselves to do what all your lazy ass won’t ever considered doing. Yeah! They shut the fuckup and just do it.

What about you my nigga? You want to have a free time? To take your woman all around the globe? To give her all the necessities? To give her happiness and provide for all her needs? . . .

Wake up!

To live such a dream, you must sacrifice everything you think is normal in your life and get ready to go gaga. That’s the only way to be that type of person who go thoroughly around the globe.

Okay, what about Mr. Lovers? A guy who always want the attention of women? Who always dream about having them around? Who always think ‘yeah yeah yeah, I just want to date more women man. You know, maa get beautiful time with ‘hem’?

Correct! That guy!

Bro please, help me tell him: He won’t ever get that by merely speaking in tongues.

Am serious!

He can only get that by putting his ass out there and approach beautiful women like crazy.

So in short:

Stop fucking dreaming and start fucking doing.

Simple as that.

As long as you’re ready to be excellently superb, then you must ready to be awesomely challenged. That’s the price you’ve gat to pay.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

And believe me, that’s the only paradox of life.

The more you want people to like you and do things to please them and make them happy, the more they really ditch you and take you for granted.

But the more you don’t really give a fuck about other people’s opinion concerning your life and living your life to the fullest, the more people really give a fuck about you and start paying attention to you because you’re unique.

And that’s the simplest ways of life.

Many people think living a good life consist of having everything you want, from living flyboyantly to having a good job to building your dream homes and traveling the world. But I challenged, living a good life consist of asking yourself the most challenging question: What do I want in life?

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

Instead of worrying about what people think about you, start worrying about what you think about them.

Do you really think you should live your life to please them or you should live your life to please yourself?

Just ask yourself almost over and over again.

The more I date more women is the more I get a glimpse of what I really wanted in life. When I first started, I think I just want to fuck any woman as long as she has a little feelings for me. She might not look that stunningly beautiful, but I tell you, I am okay sleeping with her as long as she’s ready to open her legs for me. But now I realized: not every woman really worth my time. And I don’t have to pretend anymore, it’s just me and my concern.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

I was like, “what the fuck am I doing before?” Why ain’t I be more picky?”

But now I can see clearly; we really almost underestimate our capacity when it turn to achieving greatness. Not until when we try something different over and more over again do we realized, small things aren’t that really for us.

Then we started dreaming and pursuing bigger stuff. And I think, that’s the best lesson have ever learned about dating. You just won’t be able to settle for less. You’ll start aiming higher.

Although your capacity to achieve greatness might be little to none, but I promised, once you have something that you really cared about, then you wouldn’t care about the price tag. As long as you’re still breathing, you wouldn’t dare to stop finding a ways in order to achieve that shit you’ve been dreaming about.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

I didn’t know what I want when I first started, but as the journey goes forward, I started realizing, I don’t really love women that much, but I love those who really meet my standards of living. Like those slim and submissive girls. The one who love you without any doubt. Without giving you a hard time. Even when you make them angry, they still have the courage to say “yeah I know, you really pissed me off. But you know what? I still like you.” Yeah, those type.

But when am hearing that same shit from a giant woman, who look like Steven Keduma, well, I might not put up with her word. In fact, she’s going to piss me off more than anything else.

But when we’re talking about Slimzy, the girl who really look sexy with her slimzy figure? Ooohhh lahh lah, I might forget my name bro.

So that’s the types I want, and it almost take seven years for me to realize what I really wanted.

And now, well, I don’t really walk up to any fucking girls again. Have known my taste and I can detect it very well.

And for those fat and extra giant women out there? . . . All I have to say is: “you’ll find your man somewhere else, as long as you’re not tired looking. That’s the best I can do.”

And for my future girlfriends, you better don’t be fat, and most importantly, don’t ever try to add too much wait. I love you the way you are. That skinny and sexy figure of yours is okay by me. Your Slimzy metabolism is my best feeder-orlism. I love you from the bottom of my heart. So feel free to stay that way. I will always love you. Forever. This is my letter to your special body figure. And I promised; I will always pay the price to get you. Because, I know: There will always be a price tag.

So meet you @ the next post.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

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