I know that am living this crazy life called . . . Unconventional.

As am waking up everyday thinking about success, about women, and about ‘what the fuck?’ that I really wanted to be. I still find it hard to understand some (maybe most) people.

Why on earth will I care about your own happiness neglecting my own? You think I could be this very fuck-face by thinking about others? – No way. Am just here living my life.

Although am a Speaker, a Writer, and someone who really care about success for others. But don’t mistake it with trying to please people. Whether your family help you or support you to become successful is none of my business, and I don’t care what you think after reading this article.

But let assume ourselves to be friends, (and not your typical fucked up friends who refused to smack you in the face and tell you the truth) and am really interested in helping you.

You walk up to me one fucking night and say: “Yeah bro, my life really is a mess. There’s this girl I love (very deeply), but it seem she didn’t love me that much. Bro, what should I do to make her fall in love with me?”

I smile and say: “And you really love her?” And you said “Yes!” That in fact, you just can’t stop thinking about her.

Okay, here is the truth:

There’s nothing wrong loving a woman, in fact, it’s a fucking must for you to really realize you’re a man. But we’re approaching it in the wrong ways. . .

“We human being doesn’t really care about others feelings, except the feelings of our own.”

The notion that you really love her and you’re here to do anything to make her fall head-over-hill for you is enough to make you see the flaws:

Have you ever considered her own feelings? Maybe she don’t really love you? That you’re just trying to assume something?

What if you were the one, whom one girl really fall in love with, and here you are not giving a fuck whether she loves you or not. Not that she’s ugly or something, it’s just that; “you don’t really have feelings for her.”

What will you do?

Will you tell her the truth or you’ll keep playing along that, maybe one day, you can develop some feelings for her?

Your answer here will determine the level of your life. If you chose to tell her the truth in hope that she can move on with her life, then you can also face the truth and move on with your life.

But if you chose the second options, where you want to play along, that maybe one day, you will develop feelings for her, then that is exactly what your expectations will be. For her to develop feelings for you when you’re playing along? … … …

Wake up man! Wake up from all the feelings and illusions. Base on my experience, you don’t really want to date the same girl you’re dating now in the next two years. You’ll feel like, she ain’t that really special unless you’re not interacting with beautiful women again since the day you met her.

So saying you really love her and you can’t stop thinking about her is because you haven’t interact with more interesting women. Believe me, if you do, you will even find it hard to believe yourself (that only her can make you happy, for where?).

Meet more people and see if you’ll be falling head-over-hill for her again. And yes, the same thing applicable for women as well. Women will ditch you once they find someone (physically, emotionally, or financially) better than you (hell, they’re even excellent in doing so. Because we men sometimes have some conscience, but it seem, women lack plenty).

You like her – agreed. But what if you see someone better than her – will you still be this cheery head? Will you still be daydreaming about ‘only’ her?

To cut the article short (because am getting impatient nowadays). You need to analyze your feelings. What if you don’t really like her just the way you think you seem so? What if you’re just driven by illusions? What if “in the next five years” she can’t even stand before you (of course because you’re improving) will you still care about her?

If all your answers are a resounding “YES!” Then she really worth it.

But if at the end, you find yourself thinking twice before you make that decision, then it is better for you to wake up friend. Yeah, wake up!

That girl shouldn’t really be yours.

Have a wonderful life.

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The Best Way To Keep-Up The Challenge: Logic.

‘You want to drive women crazy, make them horny and fall head-over-hill for you- and you’re thinking about always ‘making’ them happy? — Well-done, you’re getting closer to failure as much as possible.’

Use your logic.

How else do you think women love some people and didn’t love some?- Because some people have discovered how to play game.

Women play game- so should you?

“You know, am a man of integrity and I couldn’t put up with women playing game with me. I’ll rather remain single than to play one silly game.” – You gotta stay there.

You won’t even last a month when you actually meet your dream girl. Because her silly game will make you think she didn’t like you, that she’s just playing game. And when you couldn’t realize her game, then you wouldn’t know how to play.

And not knowing how to play mean – you’re getting left out. Or to put it well- you are failing.

Let failure teach you.

Let it be your teacher.

How many times have you lost girls just because of your foolishness? How many times did they ditch you?

Just say the truth.

For me it’s even more than what I can count. In fact, some of it are still hurting me till now. I couldn’t pinpoint game.

“Learning game will help you and mastering it will save you.”

Even your typical go-to mentor also know that playing game is better. Except they keep on telling you to be honest.

Of course you should be honest, but not when you’re with someone else and still admitting that to your woman. That’s crazy.

Be smart at all cost.

Never settle for less. Nor should you admit what ain’t worth admitting.

When you’re in dating, always keep your game intact. Love your woman but always knows when you’re going overboard. People always and will continue to love and cherish what seem beyond their reach. Yeah, we all love fantasies.

“You love her and she loves you. You really cared about her and she also cared about you. But how on earth will you (both) keep the dice rolling? You can only do that by bringing up the challenge. Let both parties have a sense of losing.”

In Love and Relationship. By: “I Am Lasisi .Com”

The only way to love your woman and for her to keep on loving you is for you to keep on improving and for her to keep up the progress. Without both parties bringing something up to the table, one will get tired of the other. And there’s no other way out.

Love your woman but don’t be fool.

Women love game. They want you to understand it, master it, and finally have a sense of using it. They want you to be in total control.

But once they realized you’re not up to what they’re expecting of you, that you don’t really get it, then they started getting nervous, feeling like something is wrong. Then they started giving a fuck. And then they started losing interest.

Pay attention to your own craft.

As much as women hate (or they say they hate) guys who didn’t gives a shit about them, they’re still falling head-over-hill for them. – Why?

Because these guys also care about them (most exactly like me and you) but they’ve mastered their ways of playing game. Yeah, they’re full of tactics. From the beginning of living simple lives and not getting emotional- how? They’ve learn to rely on themselves since the beginning of them getting wise.

So- wake up!

Use your brain. Let women knows you’ve got some balls. Play with their fantasies. They love you and they’re also expecting you to love them.

But they just can’t fall head-over-hill for you without really worth it. And believe me, no women is exclusive. You can always control almost all of them.

And if you see one that doesn’t care about your dominance, she should go fuck herself- yeah, no matter how pretty and sexy she is. You love her but she must at least respect you.

“Didn’t she knows it’s that hard to approach them not talk of talking to them? So she should at least treat you with courtesy.”

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But Wait: Let Talk About My Honourable Mentality. (In Dating & Meeting Women Of Course).

“You don’t know how long have been waiting for this opportunity to come- and now that I really need one, it finally arrived- most of all with a woman like you- What a coincidence?”

I hate you!


I hate almost every woman (that was in the past though). In fact, I hate talking about them. They are annoying. Doing shit you don’t really accept of. Fucking with your brain up and down- messing with you. But then I realized:

Not every woman do shit.

“If you think about it, dating is a game, where you’re refining your skills about life, where you’re learning how to detect shit out of bullshit. But at the end of the day, if you still manage to put up with drama, as in, you still end up dating the wrong woman of your choice? Pardon me, that say a lot about you more than the said woman.”

Women do shit- we all agreed. But just don’t forget that not every woman. Some are even wiser than your fucked up grandpa. (Pardon me).

“The best way to know who you be is to evaluate how many fucked up relationship you’re putting up with. Some people just love the idea of lowering their standards.”

I don’t care who you be- as long as you’re not capable enough to control your woman with total utmost respect then you wouldn’t mean much. That is minus ten percent out of your humanly measures.

The fact that you married a shitty woman is enough to prove what you’re worth. Maybe you think she’s way too much out of your league when you’re first starting out? And that make you think after her, you can’t find a better one? Fuck you.

“I have been dating and meeting women for the past couple years without any success behind it, yet, I was talking a big show when talking about women- when in reality, I don’t really mean much when it turn to dating women, not until I started paying much attentions and making changes.”

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

I live shitty life. And instead of admitting that to myself, I was there having a big show of how every woman are just shitty, as if I am the most competent dude for them- when in reality, I don’t even worth buying their gifts- what a fucked up life?

‘Yeah, I was this stupid dude when it turn to dating and meeting women, but anyway, I still have a long ways to go. After all, I can pretend to sit down here ‘looking rubbish’ and telling myself that am doing yoga- and- fuck you for thinking otherwise.’

And instead of paying attention to my fucked up life, I choose to remain different- just being the whom I am. Then that brings the bigger question:

Who the fuck I think I am?

Why girls are not liking me?

Why am I getting rejected over and over again?

And now I realized:

I didn’t know what I really wanted in life.

“Being cool doesn’t guarantee success. The only way to have a clear mind and an awesome lifestyle is to know exactly where you’re going.”

Dating a shitty girl of your circle actually mean you’re shitty. And having your ways around poor headed girlfriends actually mean you’re poor yourself. The level of those people around you actually dictate the level of yourself. Worst of all the people you mingle with.

You don’t need anyone to tell you where you belong as long as you’re looking at your girlfriend. And seeing your wife will actually say much about your personality. So don’t ever bother to sugar-coat everything.

‘You know, when I first met Delila, she’s ain’t that ugly- but then she started paying less attention to her body and look. I wonder, anyway, well, she’s beautiful you know!’ . . . Fuck you!

You can’t date below your standards. Likewise, you can’t go beyond your capacity. You can only assume what you think you’re really worth achieving. So dating that girl is actually what you think you are- stop saying rubbish.

“You know, I didn’t really think much about her, hell, I don’t even care. She’s below my standard right- am just trying to put up with her. Nothing else.”

That’s a lie man. If truly you don’t care and she’s actually below your standards- then you could’ve told her to go fuck herself.

Like attract like.

The same father the same mother.

Bird of the same feather.

And so on and so forth. Etcetera, etcetera.

Fuck you!

You have to raise your standards.

(And for the fact that am feeling dizzy right now, have gat to take some leave. Yeah, we gotta write this in some later time. But anyway, don’t forget to raise your standards- because I wouldn’t play nice with you when I later find out you married a shitty woman).

Have a nice dream. (Yeah, am currently writing this when most are soundly sleeping- “00:51” you know).

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Dating Amoeba.

‘I love you but I didn’t want to have sex. So what?’

Relationship malpractice, where everyone is funding their own games. You think? . . . People want their own successful taste.

“Hi babe, am Lasisi and I really like you. Can we really get to know each other?”

“Well, why do you want us to know each other?”

“Because you’re sexy and I really want to enter there!”

“Enter where?”

“Am thinking about having sex babe!”

“Having sex? You better find your type. You think am a slut?”

“Well, I thought being honest is the best.”

“Then fuck off!”

And I did fucked off.

Moral of story: Not everyone want what you want. And the best way to avoid wasting the bunch beautiful taste of your time is to get the fuck-out when you think you’re not going to get what you want. You play game and people play game so, there’s nothing wrong about that. The only stupid act of yours is to allow anyone to use you. If you realize they’re withholding anything that you think is special to you, and you voice it out, and instead of giving each other the necessary stuff, they prefer to toil around and waste bountiful of times, you better play wise of using tactics. Not everyone or everything deserve your best time. Be wise!

It took me so many years to finally realize there’s plenty wrong with dating. And in fact, people play game in marriages. So rest assured; your game wouldn’t be out-of-date unless you’re not replenishing it. And for you not to replenish it mean you’re getting complacent, and getting complacent mean people gonna use you. And the more the used you, the more they deprived you what you really need. Because once you get what you want, rest assured, you gonna dump them. For this reason, people of the both parties now play game according to their own wants. Let just call it “Dating Amoeba”.

“You’re dating someone for almost a year and yet you didn’t have sex. Are you both waiting for God’s time or someone is wasting the bunch beautiful time of your said partner?”

“You think she love you and yet when you’re walking down the street she refused to hold hands. Well, maybe she’s shy and she didn’t want people to be seeing that childish act? . . . Okay then, keep up the good work. You’ll soon realize your stupid mistakes.”

“My girl never date another man. I really love her and she loves me to. Those guys are just bunch of betas who can’t even lay egg on her talk of touching her. They’re just friends. Okay, man of hope. Dream on!”

When you’re in relationship or you’re in dating, you better “hope for the best and prepare for the worst” because most of your relationship won’t end well. And if one did, rest assured, both party face the reality. So face the reality! Know what you want and make sure the other party is there without compromising each others want.

The problem is when you want a serious relationship and your partner can only care less. All she wants is a man who can take care of her without getting notice. Wake up! You’re not the right person for each other.

You’re there trying different women like whisky and this girl happened to be one of them and she keeps on pestering you to come and visit her parents. You keep on scheming and scheming in the hope of not wanting to loose her and yet you’re not ready for anything serious. Man, I thought you’ve gat to work on your better behavior, it’s better to lose her now before it’s too late. Because once you make it late, you might come back regretting yourself.

‘I date women I shouldn’t have dated. And yet am telling myself it’s okay. What kind “OK” is that?’

Be smart in your thinking. Not every man is ready to take you and not every woman are there to take care of you. Most of our relationships are all fucked. We’re not communicating reality again and again. So be prepared to lie and lied to. That’s all.

“You mean I gotta lie and people gonna lie to me?”

Correct! Lie or be lied to. Simple as a, b, c.

“When you’re in dating, not every girls will like you. And those that didn’t liked you might even pretend to like you. So instead of you jumping and smiling because you find your real niche, be sensible enough to play hard and see if she really up to what she’s pretending to be. And hey, try to spend less money on girls, most of them ain’t really worth it.”

Most girls are not really interested in you, so be smart to know what she really wants. And if you couldn’t detect any hint, play dumb but be vigilant at all costs. You just can’t afford any stupid woman to take advantage of you.

Be wise!

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‘Of course, you won’t allow it to bite you. Do you?’

Don’t be surprised when you see yourself getting attached to something significant in your life. The feelings behind your reasons doesn’t matter, all that really matters is your willingness to make all these keep on uplifting you.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

The reason you’re not motivated enough ain’t because you’re tired. Ever.

The reason is that; you’re not feeling anything to make you kick yourself in the ass.

When you first started, something keep on hitting you hard not to ever give up. But now, it seem as if, that special drive has left you out.

The reason you’re achieving your goal might have nothing to do with you in the first place. Maybe you’re just tired of living a shittiest life and decided to start finding your dream girl. Or maybe you just plainly tired of being true to yourself and instead start seeing everything the way they are? All these as has excellently nothing to do with you in the first place, you’re just the one extra-highly indulging yourself in a way that you could ever imagined being possible.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

You don’t know because you don’t know and you don’t want to know because you’re not ready to know.

If you think you lack motivation, step back and ask yourself why you’re doing that in the first place. It might be because you just want to or because you think you just have to. None of the reasons actually matters. All that matter is your willingness to keep on moving forward.

You don’t need to understand why or what, you just have to keep your cool and keep on moving forward.

Sometimes, after achieving your goals, then you realized: you don’t really want that goal. Instead of beating yourself up, why can’t you take the lessons you’ve learned and continue moving on with your life?

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

I know because have been there before, and I know because it’s what I really want to know.

Turning your back to what you could have pay your ultimate attention to won’t ever solve anything in your life. Instead, it will surely destroy it.

So take your gear and prepare moving forward.

Be who you want to be but never forget the one who take you there. Maybe it’s a motivational videos or your thoughts about meeting the right ones. Maybe you’re tired of life and ready to make the good use of your time and bring back all the energies of your life? The reasons ain’t that spectacular, it is highly understandable, everyone has his or her own life to live. Only that, you should never allow yourself to forget why you started it in the first place.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

When you achieve your goal, hope you won’t forget?

The reason that kick you in the first place will surely motivate you over and over again. But once you forgot that reason, be ready for another kick in the ass for another lack of motivation in your life.

So for this reason, my friend, never forget your point of getting started.

Until we meet again . . .

See you @ the nearest future actions.

It’s your guy . . .

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

Brah! !! !!!

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