I hope this article won’t kill me.
In fact, the title alone is enough to make the job done, (yeah, if they really wanted to kill me), because am going to offend some intimate friends.
Well, (I hope they don’t kill me sha).
You know, . . .
But the thing is: Why will God even assign you a job when knowing that you wouldn’t do it right?
He can only assign you the task because He did believe you’re going to deliver a perfect match.
So, I think am going to exceeded my expectations limit. You know?
“May God help me.”
Hen hen, so, where are we started?
Okay, don’t drink yet. Let explain this first . . .
This is how it normally happens: By advicing me how to live my life in a proper way.
This is how she deeply advice me . . .
“Ah Fighter, (yeah, she normally call me ‘fighter’ at home) you better don’t fall for beauty. Pay attention to attitude first. If she’s beautiful and lack house materials, then, you’re both going to live a miserable life.”
“Beauty is a scam. You need to know more about her background. Pay attention to how she behave around you. Taking care of family is deeply important. Beauty is nothing compares to having a proper home training.”
“You need to forget all about beauty and worship and adore her attitude instead.”
Okay okay sis, what are you trying to implement?
(Almost in a concerning and empathetic tone she said):
“Marry someone not because of her beauty, but because of her attitude. Beauty is nothing!”
Thanks sis for telling me all this, but am confused, I think yah father didn’t marry because of say; yah mother is ugly? Did he?
Thinking of the devil!
And you know fucking what?
I really appreciate her concern. In fact, I was deeply moved.
But something is bizarre.
She keep on telling me not to fall for beauty, that instead, her behavior is the most important factor in relationships or marriage. But wait:
Must we only date ugly women?
Or why is it that people have a tendency of saying: beautiful women are the least ‘good’ for marriage? As if, only ugly women are the most special creature of habit.
But what I didn’t realize at the time is that: . . .
My beautiful brothers wife isn’t that beautiful at all. In fact, quite the opposite.
People will surely advice you against what they are.
If you’re a womanizer, you won’t ever give people advice about having a single woman through out their life. You’ll cutely tell them that in fact, dating plenty women is better.
And if you’re a gymnastic, you won’t ever tell people to eat garbage and stop exercising just because you want them to be great. Nope. Quite the opposite. You’ll tell them to be true to themselves and kick their ass off. That’s the only way to get them into taking actions.
And you’re advicing them not to feel better, but because that is actually who you really are.
So that’s the same about life. People either advice you base on what they know/believe rather than what they think is right.
Fuck attitude! But wait?
What if she’s beautiful and still have the proper attitude?
You think that isn’t possible?
Well, it’s possible. In fact it common. Only that, people who have balls and can’t just settle for less are the one who ends up getting them.
And if you think beauty is nothing that only attitude is the best then that say a lot about you.
Yeah! It mean, you’re ain’t that beautiful.
Yes! I did say that.
You’re ain’t that beautiful.
And for my niggas out there . . .
You better use your brain.
Yes! Use your fucking brain.
Until we meet again. . .
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