I Wasted ‘So’ Many Times Of My Life.

Instead of me taking both of my time and resources very seriously, I was wasting my life chasing goals that I didn’t really cared about.

Instead of me seeing the realities amongst the girls that I dated, I choose to see what I really wanted to see. That I really loved them. I really cared about them. Hell, I even convince myself that a man will leave everything behind and take proper care of his woman without asking myself where the hell this thought even came from.

I was just a total loser. I follow every woman who show any interest in me (even if her only goal is to use me and squeeze anything squeezable out of me) without asking myself “What do I really want from women?” What a stupid fucking moron I was?

I didn’t pay much attention to myself, my life and my overall well-being. And there I am, paying both my time and resources on girls that doesn’t really care about me. Girls that (really) knows what they want, what they’re looking for, and what they really wanted to get. I mean girls that are really wiser than me. (I really really regretted it all).

I thought being true to myself mean others being true to me. No! Absolutely no! I really didn’t understand better. People want you to believe what they really want you to believe not what you really wanted to believe. They want you to see what they really want to see not what you really wanted to see. And worst of it all, you also wanted to see what you really want to see instead of seeing the realities as it is. What a fuckup world?

We all fucked up – big times. We all do crazy shit. We all look ourselves in the mirror and say “Yeah man, I gonna be great, I gonna walk up to my dream girl, build myself up and finally become the president of my state.” And after five years of being great then you realized; “You haven’t become shit.” You’re still there fucking and dreaming around.

We need to wake up man! We need to look ourselves in that mirror and tell the truth we didn’t wanted to hear. You’re not great you know. You’re not doing shit. You’re not even making any use of your time. Believe me, you’re just dreaming around. Dreaming dreaming dreaming without taking actions.

Stop the stupid shit. Stop making stupid decisions. Stop paying attention to what really doesn’t need your care. Be wise man!

I know you don’t really want to believe shit. I know you still love the feelings of being great without actually being great. You love every possibilities around meeting new women but without necessarily ready to do the ground work? No! You just can’t be great. You just can’t be feeling it and thinks it’s easily going to happen. And believe me, women will continue to dump you if you can’t really find your way out.

News flash: Women doesn’t really care about you. They don’t give a shit who you be. If you’re not adding values they’re not showing interest. If you’re not living great they’re not tagging along. And if you’re not providing they’re not thinking marriage. That’s the realities we all have to deal with. So be wise and live your life without giving too much thought about women, and be prepared to shut the fuck up and walk away when any girl started planning shit before you. Because at the end of the day, women easily walk away without caring much about your feelings, and make up some stupid bunch of standard excuses of not able to continue being with you. Use your brain! What? I said “Use your fucking brain.”

Instead of chasing girls that doesn’t really care about you? Chase your dreams. Instead of caring about women who will later dump you without saying or pointing what you did wrong? Take care of your life. Instead of believing what you really wanted to believe? Face the realities. Make your life count and see how many women come back hunting for you.

Yeah, you heard that right?

Women will come back fighting for you instead of you killing yourself up for them now. (Although many will still hate you no matter what you are. But at least, you won’t be wasting your life away).

And for that being said for now . . .

Have gat to fuck off and go live my wonderful dreams. Because, nothing ever comes out from being talking but not doing.

You know . . . ? ? ?

Have a wonderful day.

It’s still your guy,


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Be Careful Of Your Own World.

Emotion is taking me out of this post.

“Yeah, am thinking about sucking and twisting some breast right now.”

Correct! I want to go meet the girl right now. But before I go, let have some small chit-chat.

What do you think about life? No. Not everybody’s life. Am talking about your own personal life. Yeah, what do you think about it?

(What the fuck! This stupid feeling is still disturbing me. Like touching that girl. ‘I mean fucking right now’. Oh, you don’t know where she is? Well, she’s inside my room right now and I really wanted to touch her. But for the sake of this article, am chosen to suppress the feelings till I get through this audiosensory article. But wait; it seems that am getting more aroused).

You know fucking what? This article might have to stay down ‘for now,’ because I really can’t hold it any-more. Yeah! Am gonna play my dick inside her, you know, have gat to do it real fast. So, am coming back now!

Come back what?

. . . come back to finish this article.

‘You know, this people said they’re not accepting that. What if I didn’t tell them? Are we really going to wait that long? No dear, we’re just going to make it really last long! Oh, okay then.’

Wake up!

Am now beside you. Yeah! Let us now continue. . .

What do you think about your life? Yes! Your own personal life. What do you think about it? What are you planning to take out of it? Yes! What are your aims and objectives? You have to be careful of all these.

This is life. And you must be crazy at all time. Yeah, you’ve gat to be emirate. You must be rules by something. Something must govern your life. As a coach, how do you teach yourself? After all, you’re the one showing them how to do it, then, how do you do your own?

Be Careful Of Your Own World.

Although you’ve experienced many shit of life. You’ve seen so many tactics and some awesome dramas of life. But what if you’re now getting static? What if you’re now getting complacent? No. Just think about it.

We easily get lost in our own world. We easily forget what took us here. Instead of taking the risk and facing the fear, we chose to settle for less. We chose to say “yes, have finally made it this far” what a joke? Are you finally improving or you’re finally settling? Ask yourself.

Many people are out there accepting their fates. Many people are out there thinking ‘maybe that’s how God want it to be’. Instead of standing up on their own two feet they’ve chosen to be the same and remain the same for the rest of their lives.

You can never beat them. You can only beat yourself.

No one can ever beat you without you beating yourself. No way.

No obstacle can cross your way and destroy you to a total uncover without you first be the capital whining and complaining. Just can’t gonna happen.

The you that is in you can only be crush by you. There’s no other way.

“If you think you’re not living your dream life and you’re there fumbling and rambling about us living our own lives then have gat to tell you to go shut the fuck up.”

You first have to live your dreams before sticking your mouth out and telling us to live our own dreams. Let the CHANGE begin from you.

Yeah! You’ve gat to fucking do it.

We need more warriors not a more losers. Someone who’s ready to take the first steps and see whether he’s been followed or not. Not someone who’s afraid of shit.

So if you think you’re not up to what you’re calling yourself then you better add to. You better concentrate on your pursuit. People won’t follow a loser. We can only follow a winner.

If your life aren’t where you want it to be and you’re doing nothing in other to get to your destinations ground then you’re not worthy of our trust. We need to cast you out of this phase. You’re not going to be our true leader.

So ask yourself: What are you doing all wrong? In which area you could’ve done better? How on earth can you be improving? Believe me, you’ve gat to be careful of your own world.

And before I heads out. Have still gat to warn you; never have the feelings of settle down. Be careful of your own life. Never take it for granted. Pursue your vision and cherish your ambitions. Never say never! These are the advice have gat for you.

And finally; you’ve gat to use your fucking brain. Yes! Use your fucking brain.

And before we meet again . . .

Kindly have a gracious and everlasting living.

To hell with your haters.

Have a greatest life!

Meet you @ the next post.


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Be Careful Who You Talk To (Because Most People Never Experience Shit).

You’ve been dreaming about starting a new job. Having a new car or acquiring more skills ( and hey, what about approaching more women? Or do you want to die without leaving your hometown!!?). But your number one concern is “who is the right person to talk to?” Well, someone who really understand you better or someone who really understand life plus the urge to make changes.

Maybe you don’t really understand?

People will never advice you more than what they know or who they think they are. Never.

They can only give you ‘side-two’ of their own (personal) life.

What does that mean?

It mean you should never ask advice from someone who doesn’t get it. Or someone who never experience shit in their lives. Just take your case to another customer (the right person who’s going to see it as it is not some bunch headed gurus who call themselves ‘the master of all things’ or some fools who think they’re gorilla of life).

“If they can’t see it then they can’t feel it.”

I’m a good believer of: “As a man thinks in his heart (even a woman) so he is” and there’s nothing you can say to convince me of that. But if you call yourself ‘the master of all shit’ just because the Bible said so then am deeply sorry. You better know shit.

It’s interesting isn’t it? . . .

You have to know who you’re dealing with.

“The most dangerous ways of life isn’t to be ignorance. But the most dangerous ways of living is to have something you don’t even know the value of using it.”

Some people have brain but think it’s their to guide them through normal ways of life. We’re all going to die so why do I need anything special in life? Stupid mentality.

If you take your case to someone who really think your country is bad, that to make it only reserved for those who know the right person at the top. That it just can’t be possible to be this or to be that. You better run like hell. Those people never believe in any fucking thing. They’re already settling.

“You told me marriage brings joy and yet you’re planning divorce what does that mean?”

It mean you’re being fucked.

If your teacher ain’t living the life you want then consider changing tactics. Maybe he’s just good at dealing with economic bullshit not reality about life. Some people are very unique about that.

“We’re talking about weather and here he comes claiming Toyota is faster than Visco 220 what a stupid fellow?”

Your life will never improve if the people around you aren’t supporting your motive. They don’t need to like you but they need to respect your hustle. That is not negotiable.

“What I want to be is none of anybody’s business. I am living my life the way I wanted it to be. So if you think my life is not align with what you want for me then you should go fuck yourself. I could only care less after all, we’re not in the same shoes.”

If am going through hell am not forcing you to join me, so stick that your fucking nose to your own fucking business. This is my life and you have no right to dictate for me. If you really want to advise me, there are some ways to show it not by foolishly pointing your fingers at me. And I want you to be careful how you talk to me. Am not a kid you know!

On your way to success.

Have a mentor but not a stupid one. And if you sense some lack of meaning and lack of understanding between both of you, instead of shaking your head pretending you got it, declare your want and draw the ground. That’s the most ruthless ways to live. By showing people you don’t really care about shit. If they fucked up then they’ve fucked up be that. There’s no turning back.

And for the purpose of this article (because am feeling dizzy right now).

Never allow anyone who is not living a life worthy of respect and admiration from you to guide you on how to live your life. They don’t really worth it.

Some of them don’t even have a dream talk of taking actions to reach them. They’re just bunch of crap.

So be careful who you talk to.

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NOW I UNDERSTAND: My Brother Wife Nearly Killed Me.

I hope this article won’t kill me.

In fact, the title alone is enough to make the job done, (yeah, if they really wanted to kill me), because am going to offend some intimate friends.

Well, (I hope they don’t kill me sha).


You know, . . .

Truth hurt.

Like hell.

But the thing is: Why will God even assign you a job when knowing that you wouldn’t do it right?


He can only assign you the task because He did believe you’re going to deliver a perfect match.

So, I think am going to exceeded my expectations limit. You know?

“May God help me.”

Hen hen, so, where are we started?

Okay, don’t drink yet. Let explain this first . . .

This is how it normally happens: By advicing me how to live my life in a proper way.

This is how she deeply advice me . . .

“Ah Fighter, (yeah, she normally call me ‘fighter’ at home) you better don’t fall for beauty. Pay attention to attitude first. If she’s beautiful and lack house materials, then, you’re both going to live a miserable life.”

“Beauty is a scam. You need to know more about her background. Pay attention to how she behave around you. Taking care of family is deeply important. Beauty is nothing compares to having a proper home training.”

“You need to forget all about beauty and worship and adore her attitude instead.”

Okay okay sis, what are you trying to implement?

(Almost in a concerning and empathetic tone she said):

“Marry someone not because of her beauty, but because of her attitude. Beauty is nothing!”

Thanks sis for telling me all this, but am confused, I think yah father didn’t marry because of say; yah mother is ugly? Did he?

‘We both joyfully married because we both resemble each other.’

Thinking of the devil!

And you know fucking what?

I really appreciate her concern. In fact, I was deeply moved.

But something is bizarre.

She keep on telling me not to fall for beauty, that instead, her behavior is the most important factor in relationships or marriage. But wait:

Must we only date ugly women?

Or why is it that people have a tendency of saying: beautiful women are the least ‘good’ for marriage? As if, only ugly women are the most special creature of habit.

But what I didn’t realize at the time is that: . . .

My beautiful brothers wife isn’t that beautiful at all. In fact, quite the opposite.

‘They said we should stop dating beautiful women, that they only have attractive body but ugly mindset and extra ‘dandorf’ attitude. So, what do we do horney?’

People will surely advice you against what they are.

If you’re a womanizer, you won’t ever give people advice about having a single woman through out their life. You’ll cutely tell them that in fact, dating plenty women is better.

And if you’re a gymnastic, you won’t ever tell people to eat garbage and stop exercising just because you want them to be great. Nope. Quite the opposite. You’ll tell them to be true to themselves and kick their ass off. That’s the only way to get them into taking actions.

And you’re advicing them not to feel better, but because that is actually who you really are.

So that’s the same about life. People either advice you base on what they know/believe rather than what they think is right.

“You think I should marry something like this just because attitude is better? Keep on dreaming sis.”

Fuck attitude! But wait?

What if she’s beautiful and still have the proper attitude?

You think that isn’t possible?

Well, it’s possible. In fact it common. Only that, people who have balls and can’t just settle for less are the one who ends up getting them.

And if you think beauty is nothing that only attitude is the best then that say a lot about you.

Yeah! It mean, you’re ain’t that beautiful.

Yes! I did say that.

You’re ain’t that beautiful.

And for my niggas out there . . .

You better use your brain.

Yes! Use your fucking brain.

Until we meet again. . .

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If you think you have to wait for that special someone before taking time to take good care of yourself then I have to warn you to think twice.

It doesn’t matter either you really want to or you just believe you think so, as long as you’re not ready to take necessary actions toward your life then you should forget about being great.

You don’t have to force yourself into taking actions nor should I advice you to do so. But I know one thing: You can’t ever succeed without feeling the urge to succeed. Yeah! You heard that right!!??

‘Oooo yeah!!! This guy think I can’t really make it without putting on the pressure?’


You can’t really make it.

And hear this:

“You’re not going to succeed just because everyone are succeeding. You’re going to succeed because you really want to succeed.”

If just because of the people around you is the reason why you’re planning to succeed then you’re ultimately going to be disappointed. You have to get yourself out of that fucking mentality.

Instead of thinking about impressing people, think about them impressing you. And for them to really impressed you, then you must actually worth it. Then how will you worth it? . . . That’s a question nobody dare answering. Because, nobody really understood.

If you ask a guru, or a professional athletes, or your fucking moron master about how or what can you do to achieve greatness, they’ll started telling you to be yourself and actually live a life true to yourself (including me). But what all these gurus and apocalypse special mentors of yours lack (including me) is the ultimate drive of yours to be who you really want to be. Maybe you’re just driving by illusions. Hell, maybe you don’t even believe in what you want, you’re just bullshitting everyone?

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

I know it’s a good idea to be tough and strong in your life, but tell me, why exactly do you want to be strong?

Why is it that people only tell you to be who you want to be but never ask you if you’re capable enough to be that person?

They keep on feeding you all the good stuff about being great and neglecting all the crazy and arduous work to achieve it.

If it were easy, you think both me and you will be here? Never. We might have all become great by now.

I wish you could realize one thing, that if you truly want greatness, then no one should be there forcing you into taking actions. You should be the one kicking yourself in the ass.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

I don’t know how you’ve been planning your life nor do I care about what you’re doing right now. But I do give a fuck about one thing: Never in your life will you want something without ready to pay the price.

And that price shouldn’t be paying by having a sense of someone forcing you. You should be the one paying the price because you really want to not the other way round. And that alone is the ultimate reason that you really want it in the first place.

If the source of your motivation is that people are all doing it, then you should be ready for another slap in the face. Because either you want it or not, your motivation will sooner wear you out and there’s nothing you’ll be able to do about it. But if the source of your motivation is something pertaining to yourself, something that you really care about, something that you just can’t go a day without thinking about. Then I promised, you will surely go about it and give it all your best to achieved it.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

Never set your goals on a tiny believe of becoming the best possible versions of yourself. Set your goals because you just can’t leave this life without achieving it.

And believe me; if you really want your goal, as in, you really want that ambitions of yours, then no one should be there forcing you. You should be the one kicking yourself in the ass.

And if you think you still don’t get it, then I have to tell you to shut the fuckup and get the fuck out of this site. (It’s my site anyway not yours).

And for those who really believe in reality: welcome to another episode of life. No One Can Force You Into Taking Actions. If You Really Want It, Then I Shouldn’t Be The One Forcing You. You Should Be The One Kicking Yourself In The Ass.

So until we meet again . . .

Have a crazy and understandable life.

It’s still your guy,


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