When you’re playing with words.

Mind your territory. When you’re dealing with me. Mind your words. I never let go of any word untested.

Experience has taught me many times: people has some hidden messages. They don’t always say it on your face. But always appear in their words.

And if you’re a smart-ass. Someone who go beyond techniques. Then you will pay attention more to actions than words. And because of this, we always forget words. We only pay attention to actions. Which later fuck us deep.

I don’t know much about dating. Because dating suck. But I know plenty about debunking people. Tell me one thing about your life. And I will go all day thinking about it. Trying to find your hidden messages.

And by doing that, I’ve save myself a lot of time dealing with some fuckup people out there. Those who only come to you because of reasonable something. And they’re not ready to give anything in return. They’re just coming to drained you.

Action – Word – and Action.

You must be vigilant of both. Always.

Stop telling me you love your neighbor. If your neighbor is using some tricks to get some shit out of you, you better use counter-wise. Or else, you’re going to be exploited.

Sometimes you don’t get the measurements all at once. But as you ponder on about it. Definitely you’ll get the main figure. And that doesn’t mean you should go all your day paying attention to people. That gonna make you weird.

It’s a work in progress mission. Where you’re becoming great day by day.

And to give you some guidance. When dealing with some people you didn’t trusted that much. Always ask yourself, “What is he trying to tell me?” Or better still, ask yourself, “What are the hidden messages of this?”

You can transferred that to your friendships as well. But rest assured. You’re going to loose many friends. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try. At least, it will save you from being captured by some enemies.

And believe me, in the next few weeks or so. You’re coming back to say, “Thank you dude. I really appreciate,” because almost everyone in your life are communicating with you with some hidden messages. It just that, you’re not paying enough attention.

And remember, not all of these people are paying attention to their own words as well. Some are just plainly talking or having a chat with you and or somebody else around you. But often times, there’s always a message behind what they say. Only that, you or the dude they’re talking to ain’t paying attention.

If you manage to become a great DEBUNKER. There’s always a good benefit behind it.

People will be getting your messages clearly. You’ll be understanding people deeply. And you will always try to see beyond the facade.

Instead of just listening to people. (As your dating coaches always say). You’re now understanding them.

And instead of giving people what they want. You’re now giving them what they’re asking for. Because most of your friends are very good at smoking-screen. Where they’re hitting you without notice.

And don’t forget the like of your dating partners. They’re always good at hitting people.

With this being said .. .. ..

Always try to be a good DEBUNKER.

Meet you @ the next post .. .. ..

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I Wasted ‘So’ Many Times Of My Life.

Instead of me taking both of my time and resources very seriously, I was wasting my life chasing goals that I didn’t really cared about.

Instead of me seeing the realities amongst the girls that I dated, I choose to see what I really wanted to see. That I really loved them. I really cared about them. Hell, I even convince myself that a man will leave everything behind and take proper care of his woman without asking myself where the hell this thought even came from.

I was just a total loser. I follow every woman who show any interest in me (even if her only goal is to use me and squeeze anything squeezable out of me) without asking myself “What do I really want from women?” What a stupid fucking moron I was?

I didn’t pay much attention to myself, my life and my overall well-being. And there I am, paying both my time and resources on girls that doesn’t really care about me. Girls that (really) knows what they want, what they’re looking for, and what they really wanted to get. I mean girls that are really wiser than me. (I really really regretted it all).

I thought being true to myself mean others being true to me. No! Absolutely no! I really didn’t understand better. People want you to believe what they really want you to believe not what you really wanted to believe. They want you to see what they really want to see not what you really wanted to see. And worst of it all, you also wanted to see what you really want to see instead of seeing the realities as it is. What a fuckup world?

We all fucked up – big times. We all do crazy shit. We all look ourselves in the mirror and say “Yeah man, I gonna be great, I gonna walk up to my dream girl, build myself up and finally become the president of my state.” And after five years of being great then you realized; “You haven’t become shit.” You’re still there fucking and dreaming around.

We need to wake up man! We need to look ourselves in that mirror and tell the truth we didn’t wanted to hear. You’re not great you know. You’re not doing shit. You’re not even making any use of your time. Believe me, you’re just dreaming around. Dreaming dreaming dreaming without taking actions.

Stop the stupid shit. Stop making stupid decisions. Stop paying attention to what really doesn’t need your care. Be wise man!

I know you don’t really want to believe shit. I know you still love the feelings of being great without actually being great. You love every possibilities around meeting new women but without necessarily ready to do the ground work? No! You just can’t be great. You just can’t be feeling it and thinks it’s easily going to happen. And believe me, women will continue to dump you if you can’t really find your way out.

News flash: Women doesn’t really care about you. They don’t give a shit who you be. If you’re not adding values they’re not showing interest. If you’re not living great they’re not tagging along. And if you’re not providing they’re not thinking marriage. That’s the realities we all have to deal with. So be wise and live your life without giving too much thought about women, and be prepared to shut the fuck up and walk away when any girl started planning shit before you. Because at the end of the day, women easily walk away without caring much about your feelings, and make up some stupid bunch of standard excuses of not able to continue being with you. Use your brain! What? I said “Use your fucking brain.”

Instead of chasing girls that doesn’t really care about you? Chase your dreams. Instead of caring about women who will later dump you without saying or pointing what you did wrong? Take care of your life. Instead of believing what you really wanted to believe? Face the realities. Make your life count and see how many women come back hunting for you.

Yeah, you heard that right?

Women will come back fighting for you instead of you killing yourself up for them now. (Although many will still hate you no matter what you are. But at least, you won’t be wasting your life away).

And for that being said for now . . .

Have gat to fuck off and go live my wonderful dreams. Because, nothing ever comes out from being talking but not doing.

You know . . . ? ? ?

Have a wonderful day.

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Be Careful Of Your Own World.

Emotion is taking me out of this post.

“Yeah, am thinking about sucking and twisting some breast right now.”

Correct! I want to go meet the girl right now. But before I go, let have some small chit-chat.

What do you think about life? No. Not everybody’s life. Am talking about your own personal life. Yeah, what do you think about it?

(What the fuck! This stupid feeling is still disturbing me. Like touching that girl. ‘I mean fucking right now’. Oh, you don’t know where she is? Well, she’s inside my room right now and I really wanted to touch her. But for the sake of this article, am chosen to suppress the feelings till I get through this audiosensory article. But wait; it seems that am getting more aroused).

You know fucking what? This article might have to stay down ‘for now,’ because I really can’t hold it any-more. Yeah! Am gonna play my dick inside her, you know, have gat to do it real fast. So, am coming back now!

Come back what?

. . . come back to finish this article.

‘You know, this people said they’re not accepting that. What if I didn’t tell them? Are we really going to wait that long? No dear, we’re just going to make it really last long! Oh, okay then.’

Wake up!

Am now beside you. Yeah! Let us now continue. . .

What do you think about your life? Yes! Your own personal life. What do you think about it? What are you planning to take out of it? Yes! What are your aims and objectives? You have to be careful of all these.

This is life. And you must be crazy at all time. Yeah, you’ve gat to be emirate. You must be rules by something. Something must govern your life. As a coach, how do you teach yourself? After all, you’re the one showing them how to do it, then, how do you do your own?

Be Careful Of Your Own World.

Although you’ve experienced many shit of life. You’ve seen so many tactics and some awesome dramas of life. But what if you’re now getting static? What if you’re now getting complacent? No. Just think about it.

We easily get lost in our own world. We easily forget what took us here. Instead of taking the risk and facing the fear, we chose to settle for less. We chose to say “yes, have finally made it this far” what a joke? Are you finally improving or you’re finally settling? Ask yourself.

Many people are out there accepting their fates. Many people are out there thinking ‘maybe that’s how God want it to be’. Instead of standing up on their own two feet they’ve chosen to be the same and remain the same for the rest of their lives.

You can never beat them. You can only beat yourself.

No one can ever beat you without you beating yourself. No way.

No obstacle can cross your way and destroy you to a total uncover without you first be the capital whining and complaining. Just can’t gonna happen.

The you that is in you can only be crush by you. There’s no other way.

“If you think you’re not living your dream life and you’re there fumbling and rambling about us living our own lives then have gat to tell you to go shut the fuck up.”

You first have to live your dreams before sticking your mouth out and telling us to live our own dreams. Let the CHANGE begin from you.

Yeah! You’ve gat to fucking do it.

We need more warriors not a more losers. Someone who’s ready to take the first steps and see whether he’s been followed or not. Not someone who’s afraid of shit.

So if you think you’re not up to what you’re calling yourself then you better add to. You better concentrate on your pursuit. People won’t follow a loser. We can only follow a winner.

If your life aren’t where you want it to be and you’re doing nothing in other to get to your destinations ground then you’re not worthy of our trust. We need to cast you out of this phase. You’re not going to be our true leader.

So ask yourself: What are you doing all wrong? In which area you could’ve done better? How on earth can you be improving? Believe me, you’ve gat to be careful of your own world.

And before I heads out. Have still gat to warn you; never have the feelings of settle down. Be careful of your own life. Never take it for granted. Pursue your vision and cherish your ambitions. Never say never! These are the advice have gat for you.

And finally; you’ve gat to use your fucking brain. Yes! Use your fucking brain.

And before we meet again . . .

Kindly have a gracious and everlasting living.

To hell with your haters.

Have a greatest life!

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That Will Be A Challenge.

But what?

You mean girls normally play hard to get in order to see their pants?

And if I couldn’t get it then I wouldn’t see it?

But what of those who never toast slash or do anything for them and still fuck them?

Oh ooh! You also realize the mistake?

Correct! Let have some never ending discussion right now.

She doesn’t really want your explanation.

You staying there thinking about how to tell her you’re just friend with that babe isn’t going to solve anything.

Just walk up to her and let her know you really liked her and she’s the only one you really cared about. (Yeah, forget about who saw who).

I know she saw you kissing and romancing that girl but you don’t really need to be overly exaggerated.

Make it stupid simple.

“The fact that she saw you with that babe will make her love you more not exactly what you’re thinking.”

Instead of thinking you’ve blow it think you’ve got it. Girls don’t really care about who you date or how you present yourself to other women. What they really cared about is that; we’re both playing the same game.

They know that you do approach and meet other women (because they’re ALSO doing that as well, only that, we men are the one who supposed to initiate first).

So don’t be so stupid to explain yourself just because she saw you. Believe me, women don’t really want that (and am talking from my hard earned experience of course).

They want to believe what they really wanted to believe.

When it turn out to dating, women are the most dangerous shit out there. We men just have the foolishness to go around proclaiming our sexually aggressive. Or maybe we should just call it ‘our ego’.”

You think?

I think women play game (almost) 99 percent times more than every man out there. We’re just plainly stupid to see it.

Just because your girlfriend tag along everywhere you go and feed you in front of almost every fucking dummy around you doesn’t mean she doesn’t know the guy next to you. Quite the opposite. In fact that guy might be fucking her ‘hard’. I mean very very hard.

And me saying this doesn’t mean that am trying to change your perspective. Nope. But if that be the case, then so be it. Because there aren’t any value for you being used by women. I want you to be extra highly smart. What women do is what we do (in fact, they’re excellently smarter than us on this field). We’re just bunch of dick heads.

Date any fucking women you wanted to date. And when your girlfriend(s) find out, never admit anything.

‘Because being honest is the best possible way to be an integrity man’.

Fuck you!

And if you still refused to change, don’t be annoyed when you later find out that your first child isn’t genuinely yours because almost you plus seven other guys did the job.

‘Correct! We women know how to keep shit better than you dick heads.’

Be wise in your calling and never allow anyone to become your living hell. You’ll be surprised how women uses men. And yet, we still believe that we’re doing a great job.

Feeding and providing for the same women almost seven of other dick headed guys are still sweating and toiling for. What a weird feelings? I’d rather play the game than to continued being played.

And for me; that will surely be a challenge because I thought I was straight and honest guy. I never love compromising things.

But now? I think someone need to change his way of living.

Women doesn’t give a shit.

If being honest is getting me nothing than adding stones to my life, then I’d better be a different person. After all;

“Insanity is doing the same shit over and over again and be expecting different results.”


I better be quick with my taking actions.

And that doesn’t mean am going to become a complete total jack with manipulative bullshit, all am saying is that; we have to start using some brain because – NOW: BRAIN WORK IS THE BEST.

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Why Can’t We Live The Life Of Our Dream? It’s Kind Of Crazy You Know!

It’s kind of crazy to see people suffering, when in reality, they don’t even know why they’re suffering. Although, people think for you to live a better life, you must first of all have everything you want or everything you’ve been dreaming about getting. When in reality, it’s just a state of mind.

Living a good life shouldn’t be hard, but we always compromise our want.

I am ultimately sure that everyone want to be happy and have a better job. But not everyone really understand what they want. People are just roaming about.

“When I get to fifty, I will start roaming around. Moving form one place to another. Traveling the world. Am just hoping that this brother jones won’t destroy my plan.”

Have you ever seen a man telling you all his fairy tale imaginationing lifestyles; when in reality, he doesn’t even believe he can achieve that in his entire life span? Don’t be surprised, everyone has his or her desired mindset, but not ready to challenge the status quo. They think people will just muck them and that they might not have a say in the world. (Even when they still believe otherwise at the back of their minds).

They just can’t fucking face it!

If everyone really believe they could achieve their goals, then we could put our mind at ease. But the problem is: even if they really want to, they still don’t see themselves as the ones who really worth it.

Out of every populations, fifty percent will hardly believe they could SUCCEED. And if you convince the remaining thirty, they will prove you all the bad luck in the world. And for the remaining bastards, we still have fifteen percent that will tell you how wonderfully made they’re planning to succeed, that no matter what happens, they will achieve their goals. And surely, these bastard will surely achieve their goals, but at the end, they don’t really want that goals if not for the pride and the prestige behind it. And for the remaining five percent, they are the fools among the strong, they are the one people don’t really want to look up to because they’re living a different life. They don’t really believe in anyone except their God(s). They don’t really have time for all the bullshit that is plaguing this world. All they care about is to live this life according to their beliefs and practice every reality of their true callings.

If you really want to know these people, you don’t even have to look further, just look behind your shoulder, they’re all around you.

It is not your capability that matters. But your willingness to suffer.

People are not living their life not because they DON’T really understand what they want, but because they just can’t face the reality of it. And for you to tell them otherwise mean you don’t really get their points, when in reality, they are the one manipulating themselves.

The moment I realize I don’t really love my wife again, I have to admit and ask myself why. Then I realized, I don’t really like her in the first place, but because I want to fulfilled some societal standard, I have to swallow my pride and just go with the flow. Even when going with the flow seem like neglecting my truest desires. I think I was fucked.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

Thinking back, I was the one that manipulate myself into believing that I have no right to live my life the way I want. I didn’t have the strength to defend my true calling. And I thought I was making everything and everyone better, when in reality, I was making everything and everyone getting worse.

Instead of me to face the reality of my life, I was facing the reality of external forces. And these external forces doesn’t really care about my wants, all they care about is for me to surrender to their want and buckled to their desires. What a pitiful people? I’d rather die living alone than to be among the fools who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they’re living in a terrible territory of suppressing their feelings and formulating their angers.

“I have to tell this mega master to Fuck-Off! Or else, I won’t be free to live the life of my dream.”

This is the life I want. And for you to think that am doing it wrong, is the beginning of removing me as your friend. Am not here to please people, I am here to live my life.

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