Being Kind To Your Enemy Is Being Cruel To Yourself.

This is life. Where everyone are all fighting for their own course. Either big or small, we all want to fight for freedom.

Some people fight for good cause, while some people just fight for nothing, only in the name of fighting course. But it doesn’t matter which category you belong, we all have a reason to protect our choice.

Thinking of this, your enemies also has the right to protect their choices against you. Which means, you must never relax. Talking about your enemies? You must be exponentially ruthless.

You don’t have to be a soldier. Nor is it a must for you to be a warrior. But you must be something. And it doesn’t matter which field you’re operating, all that matter is your preparation to win the battle.

Fighting against your enemy is an excellent mission. Ultimately no distractions. And you’re going all-out by putting yourself there.

But there’s a downfall:

You just can’t possibly save your enemies unless there’s a good reason to do so.

Because all enemies are all brutal. Brutality is the number one reason most people won’t ever succeed. They think you don’t have to be hard on everything. That you should know how to show mercy. That pitying someone is a must.

Well, doing the work of gods thinking you’re doing great won’t actually help you.

So for you to show mercy, let it be at the juncture that you want it, not by being a wishy-washy.

Knowing your enemy is one thing, and knowing how to deal with them is another. If your enemies survive the first treat, rest assured, they’re coming back to hunt you. And by this time, they will come with great strength and great plan. For this reason, you must never spare your enemy.

And if you think some enemies are just meat to spare. It’s okay. Just be fully aware that you’re capable to destroy them even when they attack you in a million ways. That way, they won’t have any means to dominate you.

But if you don’t have the order, the resources to counter attack your enemy, then don’t try sparing them. Destroy them at the moment you have the opportunity. Doing that will set a boundary for your next target. They won’t really have the courage to attack you, because they know, you wouldn’t go easy.

Okay, why are you talking about enemy?

Well, I was just reading a novel. And I think sharing some useful thoughts out of it won’t hurt anyone.

So there it is: Being kind to your enemy is being cruel to yourself.

That means to say .. .. ..

Never spare your enemy.

Leave mercy to gods.

Have a wonderful life.

Your guy, Lasisi.

Two Things Your Father Never Have The Balls To Tell You.

Imagine sitting down with your dad, talking about everything about life. Gisting you about all his difficulties, how he live his life up to this life.

And suddenly he get serious, looking deep into your eyes and say: … … …

“Kid, Maybe I Didn’t Love Your Mother!”

How will you feel…??!!!

He understand you’re going to feel bad, and that’s why he didn’t get the balls to tell you.

Your dad really loves you, you know. And he’s not interested in destroying your expectations about life. That, you might never love your woman and still get married to her anyway.

No not because there’s no other ways. But because you didn’t have the gut to question your life back then: ‘What do you really want in life? What do you values? And again, is this woman really worth your time?”

But instead, you’re just going with the flows.

Number Two:

Your Father Didn’t Have The Balls To Tell You To Disobey Him.

He knows there’s no way for you to live your life without giving him some “fuck you dad” attitude.

He knows without you actually saying “Yeah, dad, enough is enough, I’ve gat to live my own life” then you might never reach your true happiness. But telling you will make him seem like fool. Hence, because his own father didn’t manage to tell him that then he wouldn’t have the courage to tell you too.

How wonderfully it will be, if every parents has the gut to say; “Yeah kid, live your life. Yes, live your fucking life? Forget about your papa here, if there’s anything that gonna makes you happy – boy….. Go get it!!!”

But no. No one has the gut to say that. We’re all here getting selfish, forcing “our ways” to our children’s ways.

Although this article is not for everybody. Only the ones who realize the mistake. Only the father who also go through a lot of shit from his own father, without actually realizing anything.

Yeah! Those are the types of father who could really get it.

Tell your kids the truth. The harsh reality of life. Let them face it (head on). Let them realize that, not knowing what you want will make you chose anything available. And that, not wanting to disobey your father will make you live a miserable life.

(I your dad, didn’t always knows what the best for you. I can only sit here pretending that’ve figured out my life, only that, am just trying all the best not to face my fear).

In this case, I your dad, might actually don’t know what I want in life, talking of knowing what you want.

So kid, please live your life. Yes! Live your fucking life.

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When You’re In Dating, Am Going To Advice You One Thing. Am Going To Advice You To “Never Go All In”. Because If You Go All In; You Might Come Back Regretting Many Of Your Stupid Actions.

In fact, I really go all in.

And by now; I was regretting many of my actions. Instead of me using my brain, I was ultimately driven by illusions. Believe me, I really regret many of my time.

Why will I be joining dating with a total foolishness? Why will I forgot my goals and be making women the center of my attentions? I thought I was really doing a great job when in reality “I was a total mess.”

I was in it for something. Why am I running from my life? Why am I turning myself away from my real self? Instead of asking myself “What do I really want in life?” I was asking myself “What will gonna make me fulfilled?”

No! Girls never love a useless soul. They never love a man who has nothing to live for. They prefer a warrior. Someone who is dying for something. Someone who is ready to achieve his dream no matter what it cost him. Someone who forget how to act cool. How to be normal. And how to be like everyone else.

They want a real man. A warrior.

I live almost two years without a purpose. “What do I want in life?”


Nope! I don’t only want to date beautiful women. Now, I really want a life purpose.

Yes! I just want to be great.

‘Am tired of living a useless life. I really wanted to be great.’

Will girls solve my problems? Hell no!

Will they be there when am fucking myself for not living a life being true to myself? Hell no!

Will they give a fuck when I finally hit the rock bottom and unable to rise up again? Hell no!

Then why am I wasting my time?

Why am I wasting the most precious moments of my life? Why am I fucking around?

Girls don’t really care about my fucking bullshits. They don’t care about my useless life. Okay, let assume I was a girl. Then will I marry someone who doesn’t care about having a sense of purpose? Someone who doesn’t gives a fuck about becoming great in life? Someone who’s only believe is to die without being fulfilled? Nope! I wouldn’t marry such type of idiots. I’ll prefer a man who never stop at nothing (including me) to achieve his goals. Yeah! That’s a true man. Someone who’s being honest to himself.

The day(s) I finally woke up.

I want to pass my message across the globe (which message?). I want to be known by every man (which man am I talking about exactly?). I want all women to be falling head-over-hill for me (how will that possible?). Then I realized; not by living this shit.

For me to pass my message across the globe? Then I gonna have purpose. I gonna have something to die for. Something I won’t go a day without doing (not talking about). Something I just can’t die without accomplished. Yes! That will be the target.

But now I can’t say. I can’t really explain what could that be. But as long as am still living. As long as am still breathing on this planet. I promised to make my life count. And I won’t settle for less.

Concerning the stuff about women?

You better live your dream life. Yes! Your dream life. Never make women the center of your attention. Date them but try to be real to yourself.

If you think women isn’t the shit you really care about (and am not talking ‘the fear of approaching’ here) then by all means face the shit you really cared about.

And if you think you really love women being around you, the feelings, the care and the showering of love is all the shit you really gives a fuck about? Then by all means date women. Just don’t be foolish by making them the only thing you’re going to live the rest of your life chasing. And if you still chose the later? Well, it’s your life. And we all have the right to live it as we want.

“But being stupid is different from being wise.”

Have a dream. Pursue it. Take actions and date women along the line.

But when you realize the feelings of leaving everything behind just because of some stupid women. Then you better use your brain. Because your future is worth more than any craziest women of your time.

So be gracious and be vigilant. (Only by actions are you reading this post.)

Meet you @ the next beach.

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I Thought I Was Doing A Great Job, But No, I Was Being Exploited.

I don’t really know if you should start getting in love or you should start running from it. You know, it’s kind of a dilemma.

Sometimes you’ll meet people with some good intentions and yet they’re there to squeeze all the goods they’re capable of squeezing out of you.

And if you still doesn’t get it, they started finding ways to dig deeper.

What if you still failed to know better? Then be ready for a lifetime of a dilemma (don’t check your dictionary yet).

In fact, they can even turn to everlasting lovers as long as they’re getting what they really wanted.

Or “have you ever seen someone as ugly as she is still trying to file a complain about not meeting handsome and awesome guys out there? Or that guy’s just can’t pay up to her standard?”

It’s a bizarre you know, for some ugly fuck face to be claiming to date extremely handsome guy even with nothing to bring to the table.

Yet, they will still be the one to tell you that you should take care of women, that you should pamper them and provide for all their needs. When in reality, these same women are the most ugliest among the beauties.

Seriously, it’s kind of annoyed when seeing these fuck face jamming their tongues about men.

‘What? You said you want to date handsome and reasonable guys? What are you? A bunch of dick head?’

“During some period of times, I dated plenty women. I go out almost every day a week. But what really strike me most is this: during the said time, am into a business that really pays me much without giving too much stress from my side. And without giving it a lot of thoughts, I occasionally spend money for girls I love, or let just say like. Not because they’re playing trick on me or because am trying to lure them with money, but because I really like them and I really want to, and sincerely speaking, I am more than happy to spend my not-too-hard earned money on them. But the results highly surprised me. These girls doesn’t really give a fuck about me, instead, they keep on proving how stupid I am. Like am just there to take good care of their needs. What a crazy bastards?”

“Is there a crime showing how caring I am? Why can’t women just understand me?”

“I really like them that’s why am spending my money on them. But why are they treating me this way?”

I keep on asking myself question upon questions, in the end, I realized; girls don’t really care about who you be, seriously speaking, who you be should go to hell. They only care about feelings. Yes! How they feel about you.

And if you join stupidity with feelings, that you still need to take care of women, wait till those girl started dumping you. Then your head will correct.

Maybe after some girls beat your heads up, you’ll run down somewhere like this thinking about life?

Love women but don’t think taking care of their needs will give you a blow-job. No. It won’t.

So, does that mean you should be a dick-head?

Well, not really.

But if being a dick-headed guy will get the job done, you better start being one.

‘Yeah, be a little asshole.’

John Cena won’t take shit from anyone, and nor should you.

“But wait, that picture ain’t John Cena.’

Yeah, you’re right. Just keep on reading.

And hey, there’s nothing more to read anyway.

But keep your head straight and forget about pampering girls. (They don’t really want your hard-earned money 💰💰💰 they only want you to fuck them hard).

And please, don’t mix ‘being a husband’ with someone who can drive girl crazy, nope. There’s different between the two.

So, fuck her like a crazy beast.


Have a wild life.

Until we meet again . . .

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I have been here more than thousand times. Staying here more than million years. Still yet, I never met a man who can live my life the way I wanted to. It’s just rare for anyone to be who I want to be, that’s why am living according to my own beliefs and personal values.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

One thing is certain: Am going to offend many people all over the world. But I tell you, those who really have the ball to live their lives according to their beliefs and their own personal standards will sure understand my point:

You just can’t live like an emotional zombie. Walking around, roaming around, without a special purpose. That’s a craziest way to live.

I am here for a reason. And for you to tell me otherwise might mean am going to ditch you like a fucking trash bin.

I don’t really care who you be. Either you’re someone I respected or you’re one of my own family members, I don’t really care. All I care about is for you to leave me and let me live my life the way I want.

Sincerely speaking, I am advising you to be who you really want to be. But never in your life will you stick your fucking nose into my fucking business. That might make me really hurt you like hell. You know what??? Just. Let. Me. Be.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

If you think living a good life mean having your dream job, getting married and have some lovely childrens? So be it for you.

But never ever say that am living a wrong life just because I didn’t follow your life patterns. You know, everyone has his or her own life to live.

Be who you want to be and allow someone else to live their lives as their heart desires. Never stick your nose to somebody else’s life talk of saying rubbish behind them. Live your life and live it better.

If everyone around you aren’t thinking like you, they’re not dreaming like you, and most importantly, they couldn’t see what you’re seeing. Then you should thank God. You are living a life nobody else dare living. Of course, your ambitions is quite different from anyone else. That’s a dream no one realize they could ever imagined.

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

You don’t know why universe keep on hitting you hard.

You don’t know why mother nature keep on presenting to you some craziest situations.

Nor do you know why your life is just full of up and down.

But I tell you, you’re here for a reason.

And all those crazy feelings and experiences will come back making ways into your life to uplift you and guide you throughout every journey you might really try to embarked on. That’s the power of universe entertaining your thoughts, you will surely remain loyal to every difficulties and challenges.

And hey; nothing will have ultimate power to bring you down.

That’s the promised for the chosen ones.

Have a wonderful life.

It’s still your guy . . .

Lasisi Isaiah Oluwadamilare.

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