I know my articles always be a turnup stood. It is either am being great or am being poor. But today, I realized, my life could have been better if I did did what I am supposed to do.
I don’t know anything about life. Nor am I planning to be a crazy asshole. But why? Why haven’t I become great?
There are so many opportunities in this life. Couples with some unbreakable talents. But here I am wasting everything away all because I couldn’t give it honest-to-god try. Why?
I have a destiny. A miracle to make my life count. And yet, I was so stupid chasing dreams, goals that I wouldn’t care about. What a useless life?
I wish you don’t wish me a happy birthday. I don’t think I deserve all this.
Because of me some people are suffering. Because of me so many people are living a useless life. And because of me those that could have been great didn’t become great. Then what the fuck am I doing with my life?
Am I not wasting the best beautiful time that I’ve been got? Am I not being a useless fellow?
To God who made me I really wanted to be great.
I know I wouldn’t have a second chance.
I know there’s no assurance of coming back here. Even if I did want to, I might not end up being here. So, why am I wasting my time?
I have the talent, but, I don’t know why I haven’t succeeded. Is it dedication? Maybe yes! But what exactly is it that I have to do that will make me succeed? What exactly is the purpose of me being here? Why am I being a useless fellow?
You might think that am getting nut. Well, maybe yes. Because there’s no point of me being here without making my life count.
I don’t know about you. But for me, my life must be something. I must amount to something great. I must look at myself in the mirror and say, “Yeah fuck you Lasisi for living a useless life.”
But there’s still a solution .. .. ..
There’s still a solution for me to be happy. There’s still enough time for me to change my life.
Many people will say yes to this thing. They will say yes because I haven’t been a good kid. But I tell you, I will never be something that you want me to be. I will never amount to that meaning of your wonderful life.
I have my dream. I have my own ambitions. And I have my own personal ways of life. Believe me, I am not here to make anyone happy. Instead, I am here to kick you in the ass. That, “Why are you also living a useless life?”
Fuck you for giving me a reason.
Fuck you for telling me your sisters caused it. And yes fuck you for saying, “You know, I could have make a good use of my time, but the challenges are not normal.”
Fuck you now and fuck you forever.
You have to be great.
You have to live a dangerous life. A life where you don’t care about what anyone says about you. As long as you’re becoming what exactly you’ve been dreaming to become.
I know you have a good cause. I believe you really wanted to amount to something great. Believe me, I have the trust in you.
So never give up. Never forget that thing you’ve been dreaming to get. Never settle because it seem you couldn’t live up to your standard. Be a good heroes. A badass. Someone living life on the edge.
And I believe, you will surely succeed.
Have a wonderful day.
It’s still your guy, Lasisi.
(And yeah! You can watch my video down there. And of course, I think I look eye-catching. Looolllllzzzzzz).
Okay now, welcome to my journey so far. I hope you enjoyed it?
And not just that you don’t know it but the notion of this purpose is killing you. What the heck is my purpose? You keep on asking yourself.
And you’re just tired of life.
All because you just don’t understand what is happening. This purpose is too much to handle. It is something that is killing people all day and night and it seem people are doing nothing to understand it because what purpose does it serves when you don’t even understand the shit you’re passing through? It is better to just remain there smiling and suffering – but no way – I Am Lasisi is here to tell you:
It’s okay if you don’t understand your purpose.
You can always start from having none to detecting plenty. Because very soon your life will be flying with fame and purpose with a beautiful garden around you where nothing seem insignificant and every little things count as blessing.
I know we all want to have something to live for. Something we can die for. But believe me, we still have to face the feelings of not understanding our purpose because not everyone will understand us.
What you call your own purpose will be something somebody else is calling wasting of time. They will think only those who has nothing to do in their lives are the one who could do that. They might even call it useless shit. When in reality, what they’re calling useless is what you’re happy as fuck doing.
And after meeting so many people calling what you love to do a useless shit then you also started believing them. Not at once but gradually. You started doubting yourself.
And after a year or so you think maybe it’s not for you? After all if it was meant for you then people won’t be looking down on it, they should be smiling and jumping anytime they see you doing it. And then you forget all about it. You forget all about your dreams all because people are calling it shit. And instead of you to shrug and join them in calling it shit and continue doing it anyway, you stopped and become depressed and now you’re asking yourself, “What can I do with my life?”
There’s nothing else you can do except to accept the flaws of your dreams and went back there to pick it up without caring about what anyone says about it. The only time to give a fuck is when they’re saying, “Yeah man, good job. Keep doing the shit, it really cool man,” and you also smiled and raised your not too potholes skubby like head and say, “Yeah man, thanks. I gotta continue doing this shit man,” and you’re shaking your head like an hamburger kids trying to prove his point all over his friends saying hamburger is dope men!
That’s the only way to live your dream.
When everyone are all talking shit about it – you join them. When they’re giving you a thumbs up – you also say yeah am cool. You don’t run for anything. Both the negativity and the positivity ain’t affecting you. You’re controlling the shit all over your head.
Chasing dreams and achieving goals are all the same. They want you to stop caring about shit and face them head on. Even when it seem you don’t understand them, they want you to hold the courage and keep on believing in them because they’re coming back to do the same for you.
All your dreams and goals are coming back to love you, take care of you and pampered you to eternity. But they want you to do the same for them first. They want you to trust them and keep on pushing forward.
Even when it seem you don’t really understand your life, your dreams and goals are all trusting you, they’re all respecting you, they’re all putting your efforts first. Because they all love you. Yes! All your dreams really care about you. They want you to achieve them and turn them into reality.
My brothers and sisters,
Please, promised yourself one thing. That no matter what is happening in your life. That you will achieve all your dreams. That you will turn them to reality.
Even if you don’t feel like. Even if it seem you’re hurting as hell. Even if it seem everyone are all talking shit about you. Please promised yourself that you will never give up.
Your dreams and your goals are all waiting for you at the finishing line.
I don’t know whether you’re thirty-five or forty something. Or you’re just a fortunate teenager. There’s one thing am going to tell you though: .. .. ..
Dating and or no Dating? It is different from understanding life.
If you think just because you’re dating different girls all at the same time, and that you’re now a sociological badass, where everyone and everything is now your play mate, that there’s no way people gonna escape your bullshit, then all am going to say is for you to wise up. Dating women with a motivational bullshit, controlling them with your emotional rewinder, and looping your way as if you’re such a jiu jiu kakaoda? Just wait until you enter real world, emotional bankruptcy will fuck you down.
And if you’re such a great warrior, someone who didn’t care about women, a man of true grit, independently shacohama, unbeatable in-ridicule, not giving a single shit, facing dream and facing goals, not interested in dating women, rest assured, a single woman is enough to fuck you up. All your bullshit mental toughness is coming back to hack you hard, where no one will be there rescuing you, all because you didn’t learn about women. Ultimately a disgraceful to your own life. Wise up men. You need women and you need life.
This article will be a wakeup call.
Instead of foolishly entering into marriage. I want you to understand life. And if you think which life you’re even going to understand? Then here is my question for you:
Is this your same messed up life you’re going to transfered in to your children? This useless attitude of yours? Where you’re always whining and complaining just because something stupidly happened?
That’s a life I wouldn’t want you to live.
I don’t care how you view this.
People are becoming more and more stupid. They’re living life all because that’s how their own parents do things. Following the same way all over again without using a different tactics? Is that how they really wanted to be great? Doing the same shit over and over again and be expecting different results? Fuck them all. They will never succeed.
I know I might offend so many people. But believe me. I am ready for the challenge. Living your life on a good mode is all that am striving for you to be. Where you understand life without neglecting success about women. That’s the best life I want you to live.
Forget about listening to your friends. Most of them are such useless coward who can’t even told their parents to give them some time so that then can figure out their lives. They’re just doing shit to make everyone happy. Neglecting their own course along the line. They’re such a useless. I hate them all.
And I don’t want you to listen to your teacher, your church and or your pastors. Most of them are just full of understanding of a useless theory. None of this dude ever do the practical. They’re just telling you shit about dating. When in reality, many of these fuck-face never married their dream man/woman. And believe me: the fuck-face you’re giving all your total respect and loyalty to also married an ugly woman. And when you try to whine about his stupid woman all you hear is the fucking mental masturbation, “You shouldn’t put your values on beauty. Her behavior is all that matters,” ultimately bullshit. And yes I have to say, “Fuck that.” When people didn’t achieve something superb. They’ll started properlizing the useless shit they have. Claiming it’s the best. When in reality. It’s far from being original.
Be a truth seeker.
Having someone you love mean little to nothing jack shit. If you didn’t understand your life. As in you haven’t figured out your wants. Rest assured, you’re coming back to hate that man/woman.
It’s your life first. Then your partners life second. It is after when the two understand their different lives. They can now live a happy home together.
And don’t think you wouldn’t fight. That’s a lie. But maturity will play a big role here. If you’re just a fuckup religion said-it-all dating master, and you haven’t incorporate the real life journey, only full of holy lesson your theoretical pastor bestowed upon you, don’t blame anyone when you end up living a miserable life after your million gown wedding. Life doesn’t work in theory. We only achieve great in practical.
Firstly, Forget About Marriage.
Secondly, Learn About Women.
Thirdly, Understand Yourself.
But the problem is: you can’t achieve all that in theory. You need to do practical. And practical is the main shit. Where people run for cover. Hidden away their glory.
You know what people use to say? .. .. ..
“It doesn’t matter whether she’s beautiful or not. As long as she’s okay, then there’s nothing wrong with that.”
Eeh eh! Her beauty doesn’t matter? And this same stupid people who claimed beauty ain’t matter will be the one chasing somebody else’s woman even after their own fuckup marriage and yet still claiming beauty is nothing. And here they are chasing another man’s woman all because she’s beautiful? I really want to smack them in the gut.
You’re saying beauty is nothing. That only her attitude count. And yet, you’re chasing your second not-too understandable brother’s woman because of her sexiness? Why can’t you married your own sexy woman? You fucking asshole!
Seriously. Had I had the chance, the privilege to go out there meeting everyone, I could have given anyone with those mental bullshit a smack in the face, sending them flying a mile, and then later kick the shit out of them. Telling me shit about women, huh? You fucking asshole.
Women are good creatures. (What make you think they’re all evil and full of useless life all depends on your experience and the woman you’re dating).
If you think all women are all evil then I want you to think again. Maybe you’re dating the wrong types? Maybe you’re the one causing the whole shit?
I was in your shoes back in the days. I was so fuckup that my life ain’t interesting at all. I was a complete loser. I lose women just the way am loosing skills of living life. Not until I realized the real shit, the real shit behind dating and success. Behind living an extraordinary life instead of just plainly being a useless fuckup dude living life only to please others. Then I started making some changes. Toughen it up. Creating a system. And finally living my real life (in an adventurous way). Where am taking everyday just the way it comes. Not stressing a shit.
Although it was boring – as hell. I don’t go out anyhow. I don’t talk to people anyhow. I hardly play with friends because the true realization of your life won’t actually comes at your socializing moments. They come when you’re in a deep shit and there’s nothing else you could do unless to take the hard way and figure it out without relying on any fucking body to lift you up.
Believe me; true realization will come when you’re not connected to anything or anyone except yourself in a very boring as fuck situation and or environment. It is you and yourself. Asking yourself all the questions you’ve been trying to avoid.
Why are you living a fuckup life?
Why are you losing every single women of your life? Why are you chasing them away? You could have become great just before now but your stupid loosy behavior is the one that is keeping you back at bay.
You call yourself a bad boy yet you’re living a desert life. No women! No reasonable and genuine friends! No nothing. Just being a bad boy, huh?
You need to wake up my brother. After being the bad boy all for this decade and yet you’re still living in a desert then please let try something else. Let trying bean a reality man. A man who can point a middle finger to himself and say, “Yeah, this ain’t the life I want. I really want women to be swimming around me. These little chickens are a good creatures. They’re soft and interesting. And telling people I don’t like them is like giving myself a smack in the face. I need to face the reality man. I need to change this fuckup life.” Yeah! That’s the man I really want you to be. A man who is ready for all the responsibilities. A man who never waited untill new year resolution before he did what deem necessary to be done.
Please date women am begging you!
Women are tired of the useless life almost every man are all living. They’re tired of not seeing a genuine man to look them straight in the eyes and say, “Yes babe, even though you realize am dating more women. I love you and I really care about you.” They want that man. Stop lying all over the time. Learn to drop some bomb. Am serious, women will love you for it.
Dating them (yeah more than one) is what really make them happy. They’re going to cherish you. Because other women are falling head-over-hill for you is the reason they’re following your lead and respecting you. Once they realized you’re such a useless shit which other women won’t even dare to sneak a glance then you’re doomed. It’s over for you.
Just because you love your woman doesn’t mean you should become a fool. They want you to demonstrate your macho side. (Not by being stupid because I have to keep on pestering you on that. A stupid bad boy is different from a badass real guy who understand his fucking life. Not a low life living dude dragging himself all around with a bullshit mantra, “I gat this life men. Yeah! I gotta be fucking me,” No! You gotta be fucking different am serious. Not that useless man you should be – you stupid asshole. Be serious with your life. Approach real women. Not your so call ‘below average’ not so ugly women living in the same shit with you. A low life is a low life. Simple as a,b,c.
Please date women. They have a lot to teach you about life and about your own personalities. And please, always try to be honest. (Just don’t go around preaching how straightforward you are. A wise man always knows when to bend shit). That means to say – saying the truth also has some rules). I gotta explain that in the nearest future.
And for a woman:
Please always have some clarity. If you’re not ready to be serious please tell the dude and let the two understand where they belong in their different dictionaries.
Although not every man are okay with that but (we)? We really give a fuck about that. We want clarity about our goals and ambitions. Please respect us.
And I don’t think I need to inform women to date more men. After all, they’re the best at doing that shit. (Even your typical Mummy in the Lord won’t prove that this brain box sparkling shoes is the only man she dated before she went back to serve her Heavenly Father’s House), or so they called? We just only have to use our brains.
And for this being said .. .. ..
I gotta end the fucking article.
(And hey, you might think I shouldn’t end it like that. Well, all have gat to say is – fuck you!).
You know you were destine for something. You know you have a destination in mind. But something feel off. You didn’t understand something.
But you go. You didn’t allow anything to hold you back. You didn’t give anyone the chance to say, “Yeah we gat him. We gonna deal with him.”
There are so many destination in life. So much so plenty that people are losing big. People are regretting their lives. But you’ve understand better. You’ve come to a conclusion that: even if you didn’t make it, you’re still going to be okay. That failing is better than regretting. Regretting that you didn’t try.
Many people are fumbling out there.
They are talking Big. Talking Big to the point that they started feeling like shit. Asking themselves why am I here? They didn’t realize; talking is cheap. Anyone can say anything, only actionable ones are rare to find.
And no matter who you be, you are coming back to face your shit. Either you regret your life or say, “Yeah, am a badass. I didn’t settle for less,” will be the results of your actions.
You just have to keep going, keep pushing and then keep struggling.
It doesn’t matter which road you take. It doesn’t matter which destination you have in sight. I just want you to keep going. Never settle for less.
Many people will come to you, says, “Brother, we can all just forget about it. Maybe it’s not meant for us,” never listen. These are the people who’ll never amount to greatness. They prefer watching it in the movies. Seeing their heroes and shouting ‘whoo whoo’ as if they were a dog that never bite.
They love talking shit. But taking actions? Never. They will rather remain there talking about it than to actually shut the fuckup and face the shit head on.
People want greatness because greatness is good.
But taking actions? No way! Taking actions is bad. To them you just have to keep talking about it. Affirmative bullshit. Yogalistic ballistic. Very immaculate contentment. Agrolistic pack-face.
These are their titles. Talking Big. Man of stupid honor. Woman of useless shit. They just can’t. They can’t see themselves succeeding. Only others can do that, but for them, success is useless. But seeing others succeeding? Correct! They all prefer that.
You can never get what you don’t want.
Even if you have it, you will misused it. You will not understand the values. It will be useless. But if you truly want it, then you’re in for good. You’re in for not giving up. You’re in for greatness.
You won’t allow anyone to break you. You won’t allow obstacles to destroy you. And you won’t allow any thoughts to shatter your mind. You’ve chosen this for yourself, accurately for your own life. And now turning back is a taboo. You just have to keep going.
People won’t always understand you.
And it’s okay. It’s okay to feel lost. It’s okay to think you’re the only one on this journey. That is the only way to keep going. Knowing no one is chasing you. Knowing no one is behind you. Knowing you are running your own race. Not giving a damn of anybody.
Push! My dear brother. Push! My lovely sister. Push! My ultimate warrior. I want you all to become great. I want you all to finally come back here and say, “Yeah, I did achieve my dream.”
This is the day I’ve been waiting for. The day I’ll realize my dream and dicide upon it. That no matter what will happen, either in the nearest future or starting from now, I will never give up.
This is a life of determination. A life that, even if the situation will call for me losing my life, then so shall it be. Am not settling for less.
“If there’s a power before me. A power that will overtake me. Ooh! This power should be well inform, either I break them or they break me. But here is the bad news; I will rather break them.”
You say there’s something that always make people gives up. Something that always make people forget their dreams. Something that no matter how strong you are, it always break you and or break your dreams.
But I have to warn you, both you and your goals, that if truthfully you want to break me, you better have some balls. You better have some crazy maniacs. You better have skulls.
That even if you have all this skills. As in you have everything to destroy me. You better rest assured. I will always brings back. I will always surpass your crotch.
“You don’t have to understand me. Nor should you have to oversized me. But I have to warn you. I will always comes back beating you.”
I have a destiny to purchase. A destiny to buy. And a destiny to surpass.
I am talking within rubbish. Or so it seem. But relax there, this man is a living legend.
I will write through out the nations. A dream no one could surpass.