You Have To Dedicate Your Life To Something.

Either it’s love or getting better, it doesn’t matter. But you need to understand what gives you joy.

Endure pain first.

Let pain be the reason you didn’t give up. Let it motivate you. Let it guide you and take you to your next level.

Stop running from it.

Pain is good. It make you realize your potentials. It make you think far beyond your horizons. It make you question yourself.

Why do you think people are living a fake life? – Because they couldn’t face the pain. They’re not ready to face the truth.

“The moment I met my dream girl, I realized, this is not the life I want. How in hell will I be able to take care of this woman by just living like this? How in hell will I be able to provide for her by living a useless life? Nope! I need to figure out my life.”

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It doesn’t matter what you want out of life, (we all have different things in mind) but it did matter how you wanna get there. Are you here wasting your life or you’re here to make it counts?

The day I realized women have tremendous way to change a man’s life is the moment I started getting better. Getting serious with my life.

How will I choose to remain the same when everyone around me are getting better? How will I face myself?

“I told myself; if it meant not getting married because I couldn’t find my dream girl- so be it. I just can’t settle for less.”

Yeah, I just can’t settle.

How will I be with someone I don’t love? How will I be with a woman whom I didn’t really care about? How will I make a breakthrough when the woman in my life isn’t that of a big deal?

No. I just fucking can’t.

This girl must worth it. She must worth the time, the stress, and the cracking of sleepless nights in a row. She must worth everything.

Why do people settle down in the first place?

Some people didn’t love their women- and some people do. Some people love because there’s no alternative options- while some people do it because of fun.

Some guys are useless while some women are retarded. Instead of getting married with someone because you both love each other they choose to follow some societal bullshit- “You know, I just have to get married because time is going.” And they go find someone out of shame or fear and think that is love.

I want you to have a good life.

As long as you haven’t find your dream girl please never settled. And hey- are you ALSO improving? Hope you’re not just dreaming about your special girl without anything to bring on the table?

Because I’d rather be the competent one before meeting my girl, you know, she has to feel the sense of losing something when she finally meet me.

Like, I love her because she’s the only one that really worth it. Although I could still date some other women- but I’ve chosen her instead of them and I didn’t really want to lose her (although if she chose to go am also ready to walk away). So in return, she must feel the same. That this guy is a real deal, that if she lose me she’s losing something rare.

“Although I love my woman and I really cared about her. But she should understand: I get to this level of life with both suffering and toiling, and I can’t just leave everything behind just because of her. And I believe, if I ain’t that great, she wouldn’t love me in the first place. So she should respectfully love me and allow me to be whom I really wanted to be. By this could we both live a wonderful life.”

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I want to dedicate my life to everything.

I want to dedicate my life to my woman. I want to dedicate my life to myself. And I want to dedicate my life to my future. What do I really want out of life?

What if I could be great- will I still be doing all this? Will I still be dating the same girls that am dating now? Will I still be visiting the place that am visiting now?

All these are my biggest nightmares. Will I still be living this way?

If no! Why couldn’t I be living the life that I really wanted? Why couldn’t I be dating the women that I really want to date? Why couldn’t I be visiting the place that I really want to be?

Believe me, I have to dedicate my life- and so should you.

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“Behind The Failure Of A Man, There Must Be A Woman.” What A Contradictory Story?

‘Huh? This guy is getting crazy.’

As the saying goes: “Behind the success of a man, there must be a woman,” likewise “Behind the failure of a man, there “should” be a woman”. — this thing is contradictory right? Okay, let get a little clearer.

“The best way to succeed is to have your own gut, but when your gut started doubting your beliefs then you’ve got a little lazy, like, you just don’t know what to believe. But trust me, there will always be a reason.”

A reason for you to started doubting your beliefs in the first place.

Listen; many of your beliefs aren’t that of your beliefs at all, you’re just driven by illusions. Like you’re just trying to impress somebody.

And well, nothing really bad about that as long as you know what else you’re doing, but the problem is when you couldn’t differentiate between good and bad of your behavior.

You don’t really know how far you can go if you really have someone you really cared about, but this same person can still fuck you up. How?

“People have a tendency of believing what they really wanted to believe, they don’t really care about you. But the problem is when they started projecting their life upon your life.”

Word of wisdom.

They want you to succeed but not in the way you see yourself, but in the way they’re seeing you. And when it turn to women, we always fantasize about making them happy. In fact, there happiness always seem as our priority. We always drop everything behind.

And for the fact that taking care of your woman isn’t that a bad of an idea, it sometimes become the catalist of your failure. It make you poor to the command.

“How many times have you seen a man who is more than happy to achieve his dream only to get it wash away after finding his woman?”

You need to know where you’re going and have the capacity to get there. The way woman can motivate you to achieve success is the same way they could be the reason of your failure, you just have to think better.

Just because you really love her doesn’t mean you should forget your dreams. You have a place to be before you met her so don’t let her be the reason you didn’t get there unless she motivate you to even go further.

Be a gentle man but never be a fool.

“Have seen many people getting scattered just because they now find their dream girl only to come back biting their fingers after couple years because they couldn’t achieve their dreams. And what of the girl? Well, she’s already there writing a divorce because she couldn’t put up with a failure like them. What a pity?”

You need to pay attention to how you’re spending your energies. Do you really love her or you’re just putting up an act? And if you did love her then are you going to satisfy or her need? And if you did satisfy her needs are you going to drop everything just because of her sake? Pay attention to your own foolishness.

Just because you’re now in what seem like never ending romantic love doesn’t mean you should be foolish, you really need to be making a decision. What do you really want out of life? Will this girl still be there for you if you finally failed in life? Hell, will she even care at all?

“I love my woman and I really care about her, but once she started making some bullshit about me living her dream life, well, maybe we’ll started getting some real fight. Because I just can’t live only to make her happy, what of my own happiness?”

Love your woman all you want but never forget how they make you feel. Are they making you feel bad about your journey in life or they’re making you proud? Are they bringing a million ways to make you quit of your pursuit in life because it may challenge their beliefs or they’re supporting you at all costs?

If they’re finding everyway to bring you down to their levels in order to make them feeling comfortable about your love life you better run like hell. They don’t really care about you they’re just concerned about their beliefs.

Although we all have different perspective about life but that doesn’t stop you from seeing others as who they are – does it? You have to respect other people’s feelings and their perspectives of life. But when their want is now affecting your wants that’s where the thing start getting blurry.

You have to be a little pervert.

Read this: This Time Around: I Think I Have To Be A Little Selfish.

I know you really want to love but that doesn’t limit you to a single target. There’s another plenty of fish in the river. Live knowing that you still have a choice upon seeing all these stupidity our society is putting up on you.

You just don’t have to settle for anything you don’t really want to settle about. Be free in your own thinking.

Never pay attention to any woman stupidity for the sake of love, after all, you’re still gonna be the head – right? Then prove who’s the head then! Put them at their place.

“Advice is great but not when it’s coming from a man who doesn’t really care about you except for their own gains and objectives.”

Start being a little selfish.

Women can make you great and yet can make you suffer. Do have a clear mind.

Until we meet again . . .

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My Journey Into 2022. “One Of Our Ultimate Lie.” You Better Get Ready For Another Fucked Up Stories.

“New Lie Resolutions.”

Hope you’re getting ready to hear winrin-winrin “jagba-jantis” from everyone around you. Where they keep on telling you what they gonna achieve this year?

Hope you’re fasting your seatbelt for people that will drive you fifty thousand miles per hour where they suddenly pull off and explain to you all the misfortune that has happened in their life and family, and that’s the reason they couldn’t get to where they’re planning to be?

Are you ready for all of your colleagues, who will later come out and stick their nose by telling you how lucky you are, how God is helping you, how wonderfully you’re being blessed from heaven, only that they couldn’t receive such a privilege, and that’s why they couldn’t live their dreams the way you’re living yours. Hmm? You’re just lucky?

These are the same people who refused to face the reality starting from last year up to this year and they’re still planning to run from that same reality this coming year. Will they ever succeed?

Lie upon lies. Resolution upon resolutions. Dreaming upon dreams. And worst of all: Vision upon visions. Hell, most of them has entered market now, searching for a better bookshops, where they can find the most gigantic ‘company record book,’ where they will start listing are the shit they’re planning to do this year. Starting from the first rainbow 🌈 colour of this year, to the next worldly erosions, in conjunction with having beared. You’re asking yourself; Does this even sounds like having Dreams?

‘You mean this is where you gonna write every pieces of your life, all you gonna do this year?’ . . . . ‘Yes sir, and I’ve made up my mind. No retreat no surrender!’


You’re just lying to yourself.

People are very good at demonstrating. They can made up good shit and present it in a way that even make you doubt the credibility. You know, it’s just too good to be true. Just that, they’re not ready to walk the talk. But visually and pointing fingerlly? I tell you they’re the best.

They can walk up to you and explain to you in a beautiful manner plus plenty vocabulary (good ones) all they want to be in their lives. And the best way to bring out the best out of them is to ask them “Upon this beautiful grammars of yours then, what have you done?” Boom! You’ve gat to bring recorder or else, you might not recover from their misery, all the misfortune of their life, everything, to the point of getting dizzy.

It’s annoying you know, meeting people who keeps on telling you what they could’ve become but didn’t becoming, and the best part is: these people never die, they’re still living. Then what is stopping them?

You need to open yourself up. You need to forget all the craps and be a real badass. What you do today is the only thing that counts. What you’re planning to do tomorrow is just another shit of life (unless you’re a survior and you always survey) so do it now.

You want to build your dream job? Start looking for jobs.

You want to build your dream house? Start raising some funds.

You want to travel the world? Start doing shit that can make it easy.

You want to find your dream girl? Start dating.

You want to get fit? Start doing press-up, the idea of signing a membership card at your convenience gym is procrastination. Start doing ‘press up’ now and see how far you can go.

You want to live your life the way you really wanted to live it? Stop listening to people and just do what you wanted to do (although you might not be making money from it now, but one thing is certain, its going to lead you to something else entirely). So feel free to express your feelings.

Stop writing down shit. It doesn’t work like that. Take actions. Action is the best way to get results. Stop fucking dreaming. You know, dreaming is killing time.

‘Shit! So Jesus also live a wanted life? This is conjeculous, we all have to face our own shit. Excellent!’

Correct! You’ve gat to face your own shit. Jesus didn’t wrote it down, He lived it. So live your own.

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Always Leave People Better Than You Meet Them.

And no, am not telling you to impress them. Am telling you to put your act together.

It dawn on me that many people have bad ‘parting’ communication. They lack social awareness and behavioral standardizing. They do things without paying much attention to how people reacting. They think “Am just being myself.” No. You’re not being yourself, you’re depriving yourself some benefits.

Always leave people better than you found them and they will love you for doing so.

You need to pay attention to everything you do. How are you appearing to the world? Am not telling you how to behave or how to act around people, am telling you not to continue being naive.

You need formula!

People have a tendency of respecting someone who really understand them. They have a thing for that nigga who (even when he’s not interested) pay attention to everything they say. You have your head man! Use it. Use that your fucking brain.

You wouldn’t believe how many opportunities you’ve pass-by if I did show you the clips of your past relation to people. Some of them probably thinking you didn’t understand them. And for them to have such a thought mean they’re not openly trusting you, they’re trying to roam around your unawareness. And believe me, they’re not happy with that. They want your total concern. Yes! They want you to put yourself in their shoes.

I know, I know, I know. That’s not what you want right? If they can’t figure out their own lives then why should you bother? Correct! You’re wrong. People want a leader. Someone who really get it. Believe me.

You need to incorporate yourself. You need to be more smarter and more reasonable. Not for the sake of others but (usefully speaking) for the sake of yourself.

People will manipulate you if you didn’t know how to manipulate people. They will stab you if you didn’t know how to stab people. And they will excellently lie to you if you didn’t know how to lie to them. Am telling you; all these things are vice versa.

How do you expect yourself to escape trap you didn’t know existed? How will you go along someone who always look for ways to exploit people? How will you deal with your brothers that only want to make good use of your habit?

The only way is to understand their motives. Once you yourself knows how to do that, then it wouldn’t be a surprise when they’re trying it for you because you’re always ready. And “Always Ready” is all we need here.

Yes! You’ve gat to be ready at all times.

If you put everything together, people always respect those that seem to understand more better than them. Although they might say shit about the said person and claim he only want to have his way. But tell me, has anyone ever try to disqualified that person? Never.

They will never try to rule him out, instead, they’ll put him at his place because there will always be a war without doing so (and I didn’t mean violent war here, I mean opportunities war, where people didn’t get what they really wanted).

And the moment you started seeing things how they really were, the moment you started doing things at your own pace. And the more you lure people in because you’re the one who really understand better.

“Sometimes you do shit and sometimes you didn’t do shit. And almost ‘most of the times’ you’re planning shit and in fact, you did ‘really’ have shit, only that; you’re just waiting for the right time to push shit. That’s the way I really want you to be planning your life. Always ready at all costs.”

Be ready for people’s stupidity and their overwhelming behavior without it affecting you much when the times come for you to take shit. Because “not planning to wait is already planning to fail” so be careful at all cost and always pay (more) attention to your surroundings because who knows when the next opportunities arises? That’s why you’ve gat to be leaving people always, almost better than you meet them.

So until we clash again . . .

Let us all have extra vigilant behavior. It pays (sometimes) I promised.

Do have a wonderful day.

Your guy, . . .


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Be Careful Of Your Own World.

Emotion is taking me out of this post.

“Yeah, am thinking about sucking and twisting some breast right now.”

Correct! I want to go meet the girl right now. But before I go, let have some small chit-chat.

What do you think about life? No. Not everybody’s life. Am talking about your own personal life. Yeah, what do you think about it?

(What the fuck! This stupid feeling is still disturbing me. Like touching that girl. ‘I mean fucking right now’. Oh, you don’t know where she is? Well, she’s inside my room right now and I really wanted to touch her. But for the sake of this article, am chosen to suppress the feelings till I get through this audiosensory article. But wait; it seems that am getting more aroused).

You know fucking what? This article might have to stay down ‘for now,’ because I really can’t hold it any-more. Yeah! Am gonna play my dick inside her, you know, have gat to do it real fast. So, am coming back now!

Come back what?

. . . come back to finish this article.

‘You know, this people said they’re not accepting that. What if I didn’t tell them? Are we really going to wait that long? No dear, we’re just going to make it really last long! Oh, okay then.’

Wake up!

Am now beside you. Yeah! Let us now continue. . .

What do you think about your life? Yes! Your own personal life. What do you think about it? What are you planning to take out of it? Yes! What are your aims and objectives? You have to be careful of all these.

This is life. And you must be crazy at all time. Yeah, you’ve gat to be emirate. You must be rules by something. Something must govern your life. As a coach, how do you teach yourself? After all, you’re the one showing them how to do it, then, how do you do your own?

Be Careful Of Your Own World.

Although you’ve experienced many shit of life. You’ve seen so many tactics and some awesome dramas of life. But what if you’re now getting static? What if you’re now getting complacent? No. Just think about it.

We easily get lost in our own world. We easily forget what took us here. Instead of taking the risk and facing the fear, we chose to settle for less. We chose to say “yes, have finally made it this far” what a joke? Are you finally improving or you’re finally settling? Ask yourself.

Many people are out there accepting their fates. Many people are out there thinking ‘maybe that’s how God want it to be’. Instead of standing up on their own two feet they’ve chosen to be the same and remain the same for the rest of their lives.

You can never beat them. You can only beat yourself.

No one can ever beat you without you beating yourself. No way.

No obstacle can cross your way and destroy you to a total uncover without you first be the capital whining and complaining. Just can’t gonna happen.

The you that is in you can only be crush by you. There’s no other way.

“If you think you’re not living your dream life and you’re there fumbling and rambling about us living our own lives then have gat to tell you to go shut the fuck up.”

You first have to live your dreams before sticking your mouth out and telling us to live our own dreams. Let the CHANGE begin from you.

Yeah! You’ve gat to fucking do it.

We need more warriors not a more losers. Someone who’s ready to take the first steps and see whether he’s been followed or not. Not someone who’s afraid of shit.

So if you think you’re not up to what you’re calling yourself then you better add to. You better concentrate on your pursuit. People won’t follow a loser. We can only follow a winner.

If your life aren’t where you want it to be and you’re doing nothing in other to get to your destinations ground then you’re not worthy of our trust. We need to cast you out of this phase. You’re not going to be our true leader.

So ask yourself: What are you doing all wrong? In which area you could’ve done better? How on earth can you be improving? Believe me, you’ve gat to be careful of your own world.

And before I heads out. Have still gat to warn you; never have the feelings of settle down. Be careful of your own life. Never take it for granted. Pursue your vision and cherish your ambitions. Never say never! These are the advice have gat for you.

And finally; you’ve gat to use your fucking brain. Yes! Use your fucking brain.

And before we meet again . . .

Kindly have a gracious and everlasting living.

To hell with your haters.

Have a greatest life!

Meet you @ the next post.


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